How to influence people

You are sure that you make all the decisions yourself. But, there are people who are sure of the opposite: they know how to play on your habits and weaknesses, so that you act in this way. So how to influence the person.

Promotional move.

If you are sure that personal life directly depends on the brand of perfume, and without a new mobile phone, it's embarrassing to go outdoors to the street - this is the effect of advertising manipulation, which has a strong influence on a person. A crowd of specialists has long ago found out what you're paying attention to, and how you can influence. Any product can be presented on a favorable side, ignoring the shortcomings, and here is the result: your shelves are lined with a mountain of useless jars that you see every night on TV - be sure, you are influenced.

Maiden's secrets.

Everybody knows about them, but they never say anything. You must be at least very strange to wear a short skirt, if you have ugly legs, or persistently use shadows, the color of which you do not go. We influence the person constantly, hiding our own shortcomings and emphasizing virtues. In the course are makeup, clothes, hair, and another set of female tricks. And there's nothing to be ashamed of, because it makes everyone better.

Authoritative opinion.

To the question: "Who is the smartest here?" - some loudly respond "I!", And so, people really want to believe, then listen to their opinion and always ask for advice on any occasion, because their influence on a person is very high. It's important to realize when you start acting not in your own interests, but in others - it would be naive to think that an authoritative manipulator is completely disinterested. Someone may know everything in a particular field of activity or have a greater percentage of IQ, but in your own life you are the best at understanding, and do not let yourself be influenced.

Operation of uncertainty.

You go to the store for a new T-shirt, and you come back with jeans and sneakers that you do not need. This consultant wisely used your insecurity, that is, influenced you. So, either you will learn to say a hard "no", or continue to do what you absolutely do not want.

The fatal decision.

To solve to you, but such chance happens once in a life, and do not miss the destiny. Manipulators can use the most banal blackmail, which has a strong influence. Do as you want, and all the "signs of fate" that others give you, take it as a joke.

Groundless accusations.

If you gave your girlfriend a write-off, she did not receive "failure", if she helped the employee with the report, she would be promoted. If you feel guilty without a reason - look for a number of manipulators that affect you. In your own problems, it's your own fault, and you do not have to provide for the consequences of imperfect actions.