Sometimes we have to move to another city. There are many reasons for this: study, work, family and the like. But this event entails stress. Everything will change: new places, new rules, new people. We have to learn something new and do it ourselves. Therefore, if you want to facilitate the adaptation process, you will have to make new friends in the new city.
Where can I meet new people?
Interest club
Almost every person has such an occupation or business, which likes to devote time. It can be anything: singing, cooking, photographing. And it is not necessary to do this alone, where it will be more fun if you find like-minded people. If you like reading books - go to a library or a book cafe. Try to find a place where people meet with the same interests, as you do. When visiting him, do not hurry to go home - stay to chat with like-minded people. This is exactly how friends are.
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the Internet
The Internet is a means of information search, a place of communication, and here it is possible to meet new interesting people. You can keep in touch with old friends, communicate on forums, consist in communities of interest, get acquainted in social networks. The possibilities of the world pawn are endless.
Cafes and restaurants
If you do not like cafes and restaurants, then go to the park, clubs or bars. These are the places where people often find new friends.
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How to strike up a conversation?
Regardless of the topic, your main goal is to impress your interlocutor and interest him. You can start a conversation of ascertaining the facts, expressing your opinion or simply asking any question. It is best, of course, to begin the conversation of the question, since there is more energy in it. Although the statement of opinion, too, quite good at stimulating the conversation. The partner is drawn into contact, since it is difficult for him to remain passive.
To start a conversation about the situation, carefully look around the subject. Find something amazing and interesting. It can be anything: a phenomenon that evokes emotion or an object that the interlocutor will gladly talk about. Listen carefully to the interlocutor, so it was easier to keep the conversation going. You can say anything, for example, in the store you can ask the buyer who gets a strange product, that of this product can be cooked.
Many people like to talk about themselves. Therefore, if you ask the interlocutor the question about him, he will most likely answer it with pleasure. But before you start a conversation, it is recommended to observe the object a little, maybe his tastes, appearance or habits will tell about him and it will be easier for you to start a conversation .
Psychology of communication
The more you spontaneously get acquainted, the easier it will be for you. In time it will become an automatic skill. It is possible to accelerate this process, implementing the psychological recommendations described below:
- Be ready for new meetings. According to the laws of positive thinking, the universe always gives us what we desire. Therefore, often smile, stay open and sympathetic, and also friendly. If you go to walk with a sad face, it is unlikely that people will want to get acquainted with you.
- Do not be afraid to advertise that you are new to this city. Very many people are embarrassed by this for some reason, although in reality there is nothing shameful. Ask people for help, for example, find out the way to the metro or street. Tell the person that you are only recently in this city alone and will be glad to get acquainted. As a rule, people like to help others. Therefore, they not only answer your questions, but they will also gladly tell you where it is best to spend the weekend or how to pay bills.
- Be active. It is not necessary, of course, to fill up new acquaintances with e-mails, calls and messages - this usually scares. But it is quite appropriate to ask you to join you in a cafe, arrange a city tour or offer your help in any matter.
- Decide for yourself what type of people you are interested in and what you want from them. For example, a partner for going to clubs, a buddy with the same hobby as you, a friend for shopping, a man - a vest - this will strongly depend on the tactics and way of finding new friends.