In music, the word "prelude" means an introductory work before the main composition. In love, everything is the same: it is a small masterpiece, preparing you and your man to the highest pleasure.
Listen only to yourself
Prelude - this is all that leads you to a partner on the idea of sex. Dancing, erotic massage, joint bath, dinner in the restaurant, stormy caresses in the elevator, secret kisses in a crowded place ... Everything that makes the blood run faster. Look for "your game" and do not particularly pursue the standards. They say ... a quality prelude should last at least 15 minutes, otherwise the woman will not be ready for amorous games.
True. It's not about duration, but about effectiveness. Surely you had to melt away from the mere glance of a man to whom you have fervent feelings. And if he touches, he holds his lips to his neck, then his legs are weakened. And nothing more is required except one - to rush into each other's arms.
As a rule, this happens at the beginning of violent novels. When the passions subside, it is time to please each other with various caresses and tricks. And these notorious 15 minutes will be insanely sweet for both of you!
They say ... all these preparatory things are needed only for women, and men perfectly manage without them. True. The more mature and sensitive the partner, the more he needs intimacy and tenderness. In young and inexperienced men, sexual desire overshadows everything, and they need a sensitive mentor to learn how to regulate their ardor and enjoy not only the result, but also the process of firing a love fire.
They say ... during the prelude you need to follow a certain sequence: first kissing, then caressing. True. In nature, many animals and birds strictly observe the order of love actions: if the crane does not fulfill the necessary amount of bows and jumps, it simply will not be allowed to the body. But cranes allow themselves such tenderness only once a year. And you meet your man in bed more often. Repeating night after night the same ritual would be unbearably boring.
Teach him to love
If your hero is not strong in the preliminary caresses, then it just does not very well represent the difference between the "unheated" and burning with passion woman. Show him the difference! Suggest a love game in which there are only two "no": he does not remove the trunks and does not move to decisive action. You can do whatever you want.
Direct: take his hand, hold it over your shoulders, chest, put on your hip - exactly at the pace that you like. The man will quickly understand what is required of him.
Lure: caress, kiss and smooth it as much as you want, tease and seduce.
Escape: if he tries to seize the initiative, first do not let him do it. A little bit resist, then give in. Let him touch your hands or lips, but only for a moment.
And when you feel that you are exhausted with passion, let him get you ready for anything. He will be pleasantly amazed. Then be sure to tell your loved one that this night was the most memorable, precisely because he managed to really "ignite" you. You'll see: he will want to repeat the prelude.
Do not break the game
Prelude is always a little improvisation. Do not spoil it with monotony: if you always stroked on the back or kissed in your ear, you will sweetly fall asleep, and not burn with passion. Predictability is also not suitable: if your loved one always moves along the same route "lips-chest-hips," ask him to change it, avoiding, at least one point. And, of course, turn off the phones - there is no need for outside interference.