Absolutely everything is without exception. After all, as you know, there are no ideal people. Some shortcomings can easily be eliminated, others - no. Now we will talk about women's shortcomings, which are both quite real, and invented by the woman herself. Women's shortcomings, in the first place, pay attention to the stronger sex, because they fully appreciate any woman who claims to take a certain place in the man's heart. Disadvantages can be divided into physical, behavioral and character deficiencies. Let's talk about all kinds of female faults.
Physical deficiencies
Any, even the most beautiful woman always looks for and finds in itself various shortcomings. Disadvantages on the outside worry the woman even more than the shortcomings of her character as a whole. But the weaknesses of the figure are still easier to fix or at least hide. And the character needs to be changed, but this is a long process.
Disadvantage of its appearance, the woman usually considers a small chest, too wide hips, a long nose or chin. For a man, all these "shortcomings" are not so important. There are so many people and so many tastes. Maybe it's your man who loves women with a little chest and proudly raised nose. In this regard, it is better to find a man who will love and appreciate you with such a figure that there is a uvass.
Another thing is when a woman does not follow her, overgrown with fat and generally forgot the way to the gym. A woman in the eyes of a man may not have absolutely perfect forms, but must have a fit figure. The disadvantage in this case for men will be the general "neglect" of women: excess fat at the waist, on the hands, the lack of muscle mass and extra centimeters where they should not be.
Disadvantages of character
The vision of women's shortcomings character from the male and female point of view is also completely different. A woman can consider her main lack of credulity, excessive kindness towards those who did not deserve her, sacrifice and others. Men also find other women's shortcomings: excessive talkativeness, laziness, lack of minimal logic, low level of culture, shopaholicism, obsession, lack of femininity in habits and behavior, hysteria or over-simplicity of emotions, arrogance, inability to behave in masculinity, and much more.
Men look at women a little from a different angle. What women consider small inadequacies - for men large and vice versa. There are such shortcomings, which even like many men, touch them. Among them we can name:
- Excess weight. Many men are women and girls "in the body", despite the deep imposition of the media are quite another type of women. Of course, we are not talking about the absolute weight, the lack of sports in the life of a woman and flabby muscles. This does not appeal to anyone.
- Small female whims of islabosti. These "shortcomings" also like most men, if, of course, do not cross the boundaries of the reasonable. Any female weakness gives a man to feel himself a real hero - strong and self-confident, and also to prove himself.
- A little laziness. If the woman is feminine in full, then this, of course, is unacceptable. But a little laziness has a place to be, because a woman who even at weekends is engaged in cleaning, cooking, shopping - this is a real punishment for men.
- The manifestation of frank sexual fantasies. Many women think that it is too much to show sexual desire, that a man can not understand this and that sexual emancipation is a flaw. But in fact, many men like it when his woman shows initiative in bed and resourcefulness. For them - this is a real gift.
- The presence of a small tummy. Many women are trying to get rid of even a minimal hint of the stomach, but it shows up in vain. Many men like small female tummies, they do not really like flat women. Moreover, the presence of such a tummy is natural, and everything that is natural, it can not be ugly or gaudy.
Disadvantages of wives
Very often men, already choosing a wife for one woman or another and agreeing with women's disadvantages, still find what, although it seems a trifle, but can significantly damage the family relations. To such small shortcomings of wives can be attributed the following:
- the habit of constantly reminding oneself or controlling a man through phone calls (reminiscent of those who simply require extra attention, but are more often controlled by women who have the habit of keeping their hands on the pulse);
- lengthy telephone conversations with girlfriends, sisters, mother (and it does not matter that at these moments a woman can remake at home the affairs);
- long meetings with friends, especially at night and unmarried friends;
- the habit of twitching her husband and making him various notes with outsiders (this is humiliating for any man);
- the desire to take her husband with her to the shopping, but rather to make him wait;
- not take into account the opinion of her husband on this or that issue, and also not to listen to his valuable advice, proving thereby that it is she who is right and will be the way she wants it;
- too much emotionality and hysteria, especially in small things and in people, for example, because of a broken nail;
- reluctance to speak directly about what a woman would like, the constant hints do not like men very much and are one of the most "unloved" shortcomings.
In general, a woman who has received status status should try to look at herself from her husband, with his eyes and then the woman will be able to say exactly what her faults are. Remains only to eliminate them.
Psychological aspects
For a woman, it is very important to take care of yourself, to determine your real strengths and weaknesses. The main thing is to share what the woman herself considers to be a disadvantage, and that she considers a man undesirable.
Conduct a simple experiment. Ask your familiar men (married and single for comparison) to think it right to tell you about what looks to them as a drawback in your character and appearance. It can be argued that your opinions will disperse. For example, a woman thinks that it is very good when she works, advances on the ladder ladder, gets a good salary and can provide herself, but for many men this financial independence is the first step to suppressing his own male ego. It's just a denial of him, as a strong male and earner. So it can be with all the other "shortcomings", because what you consider to be a virtue can be completely disliked by a man. And vice versa. For example, a woman is sure that she has a long-legged woman who spoils her appearance, she hesitates, secretly thinks of a plastic surgery, but it's this nose that makes it what it is. This nose is so popular with a man.
In the relationship between a man and a woman there should be no barriers, especially in the form of shortcomings. If they are, then we should try to eradicate them, because if a woman struggles with her shortcomings (especially those that really exist and prevent her from living, or), then her husband will be able to change himself for the better.