Love is a very complex and multifaceted feeling, which is probably why many are experiencing difficulties in describing it. Love for everyone - its own, each color it in its own unique colors, and do not worry if you have not yet been able to clearly understand this wonderful feeling.
In the world of many nationalities, languages and customs, this word was sometimes given a completely opposite meaning. And now - we say to a person "I love" no longer hesitating, what kind of meaning we put into it. For some people this word is banality, for others it exists only in the phrase "make love."
Psychologists believe that love has three components:
The first is intimacy. It is a feeling of intimacy, attraction. We want to be close, to make the life of a loved one better.
The second is the decision, the commitment. On the one hand, it is the realization that people love each other, on the other - the desire and determination to preserve this love.
And the third is passion. It awakens a sexual attraction. Although passion can not be called the main component of a love relationship, but without it, feelings can cool down and come to naught.
Do not assume that love does not depend on a person, it is not. You can be sure that if your loved one looked a little differently, or, for example, acquired bad habits that are infuriating you, then no matter how stable your feelings seem to you, they will undergo inevitable changes. Our love is a collection of all information about the object, from its visual image, ending with clothes and smells. Everything that happens to you and your loved one, every your movement and look, every your word - all this constantly forms and corrects your feelings. Therefore, it is important to realize the fact that love can not live by itself, it must be constantly strengthened, supported, and sometimes it is necessary to prove your love to a loved one. No wonder they say that loving for real is a big work. You will be required to prove your love every second. If you like this kind of work, rather get down to business. You can not lose a minute.
First, you need to understand and accept that love is a gift. Some people in their entire lives never get to know this feeling. That's why it's worth revising your views on life and stop thinking that love is something ordinary and self-evident. For some, only this is enough to begin to truly appreciate every moment of love.
Most often the question "how to prove your love to a loved one?", Makes you think about something else. Do you need to prove anything to someone? And who needs this evidence and why? More often than not, they are weak and insecure people who want to feel at least meaningful, who are looking for a way to assert themselves at the expense of people who love them. It's a bit cruel, is not it, to solve your personal problems while inflicting pain on your relatives? It can help, as it would not sound banal, a frank conversation, a kind word. In the end, perhaps, you should reconsider the attitude to such a person, if your future and nerves are dear to you. More often than not, such people are "capricious," charging themselves with a price, and then, leaving you with a broken and exhausted heart, evaporate in search of a new victim.
It happens that a person requires proof of love, you can say, blackmailing, just out of boredom. He wants to bring emotions and colors to his life in this way, when this can not be done differently. It is unlikely that your feelings are mutual, and, therefore, you should not give a chance to such a relationship.
Finally, consider the option when you are well, you love each other madly, and you have both "butterflies fluttering in the stomach" ... First of all, it is worth looking into yourself. Perhaps, to prove his love in this case, oh, how worth it. Answer the question, are you frank with your lover? Do not you feel anything? Do not think that your secrets and secrets remain with you. You do not need to be a great psychologist to notice concern on the face, excessive thoughtfulness and secrecy. Your half will necessarily put a tick for yourself, and "overwrites" your image in your soul. So get rid of mysteries, tear everything that can damage the relationship (unless, of course, you sincerely want to keep them), and most importantly, listen to your conscience - it always tells you if you are on the right path. And more often say "I love" ...