At one time in Roman law, marriage was treated as something like a joint activity when a man and a woman united. In the modern world, this tradition has been inherited in the remaining understanding of "managing the common economy", but also supplemented with additional meanings - the upbringing of children, parental responsibility and mutual responsibility.
From time immemorial, not one event was celebrated so magnificently and solemnly, was not accompanied by a large number of songs, festivities and roundelays as a holiday of marriage - a wedding. Most women believe that marriage is almost the main event in their life.
Marriage for love in the modern world is undergoing many trials, because the family idyll is not the manna of heaven. It must be earned, it must be created. And what is even more difficult is to save. Family life is a work when both husband and wife set themselves a difficult goal - to live in a marriage for love. It's not the same job at the stove or in the garden with a shovel, but the work of recognizing another person inside yourself - accepting its shortcomings and fostering tolerance in oneself. It is the tireless and daily work of the soul, the hourly manifestation of sensitivity, responsiveness and delicacy.
The work on the creation of marriage, marriage for love - is false and unpredictable, there is not and can not be unambiguous recipes. It excludes the laziness of mental and mental, complacency, intolerance towards the actions of another. And it does not involve days off, vacations or holidays.
Complicated? Certainly. Marriages of love in the modern world are always rewarded. It's a homely atmosphere, a cozy, warm relationship, when there are no petty questions to anyone to take out the trash again, go to a kindergarten for a child or to a parent meeting., When you know - next to you are like-minded people, close and dear. In a difficult moment, you can trust, for which you can open your soul without fear, knowing that it will not go out and become someone's property. And only by the steps in the corridor and by turning the key in the keyhole you understand - in what mood. Only then will it be possible to save the feelings born in the period of courtship and carry them to the end through misfortunes and adversities. Only then it will be possible to overcome conflicts.
And conflicts always accompany family life, even if there is love in marriage. Because different people unite in marriage. Sometimes with different education and different education qualifications. This difference and predetermines the emergence of conflict situations, even between a loving husband and wife. Another cause of conflicts is the presentation of exaggerated moral, ethical, material, physiological requirements to his companion - "ideal wife", "ideal husband". Youthful romanticism has always, at all times and for all peoples, created an erroneous areal. And from the time of marriage, at times it crumbled like a myth created by one's own hands.
The modern world forces everyone and husband and wife to spin like a squirrel in a wheel. For many, the stumbling block is extreme employment, lack of a home and endless business trips. With such situations there is a sense of loss of a loved one, which can grow into a misunderstanding. All live now in tension, with a sense of exhaustion, on the verge of a nervous breakdown. In this situation, any little thing can be the last straw in the relationship and blow up the marriage from the inside. Therefore, all the time to be aware of when it is necessary to stop, look around and firmly decide: the main thing in this rapid life is not the values that come and go. The main thing is home and family.