The timidity and shyness of women is understandable and acceptable, but what if the man exhibits the same qualities? Pathological masculine shyness can hide both purity of thoughts, high moral principles and gallantry of your chosen one, and inexperience, heightened sensitivity and impressionability.
Shyness is a kind of fear that lowers self-esteem and attractiveness in women's eyes, creating barriers to communication and sex.
Checking the intentions of a timid man
When dealing with a shy man, first find out whether he is interested in you with the continuation of the relationship? A shy person does not need to be asked directly about feelings or intentions. Stay alone with a man and if he answers questions too briefly, thinks for a long time and laughs nervously, then consider this an auspicious sign.
The best way to test a man's interest is to ask for something or simply invite him to meet. Ask him to repair a broken tap, shelf or laptop. And without going away, get confirmation of the intentions of the man.
You got a shy man, in the soul of which maybe live daring fantasies and raging Mexican passions, but he does not allow himself to get close to the cherished goal? Then it remains to push the beloved to the decisive actions.
If the man is timid - address first to his soul
To overcome male shyness, at any cost, it is necessary to make a man feel confident in his abilities, to give him the opportunity to become the master of the situation and to believe in himself. Try mentally putting on it the image of "macho" - Bred Pita or Antonio Banderas and play your script.
If you are already at home, then first invite him to the kitchen. Charge a simple task for a man - cut bread and lemon, put cups and sugar bowl on the table. Give him "gentle advances": sincerely praise and "accidentally" kiss on the cheek. If the beloved has withstood your onslaught, then you can continue. During the serving of the table and the tea party itself, you often touch his arm or shoulder. These contacts should loosen up a tense man a little before chaste conversation. Then wash the dishes together. You are engaged in cups, and he stands nearby and wipes. The completion of this session will be praise: "How would I manage without you ?!" and a grateful brief kiss on the cheek or lips.
Give the man to understand that he is happy in this house for a simple tea-drinking and conversation. When a spicy situation arises, do not ask: "Are you always so modest? With the previous one, too, was timid? Does it hurt anything? You do not like me?". More benefits will bring questions: "Do you want tea with lemon?" And how much sugar? If I'm hungry, I can offer a light supper. "
Turn into a gentle fairy
In order for a man to join the program of the successor of the family, the woman should look like a natural and sensual female, and not a fashionable doll. Therefore, "accidentally" during the washing of dishes you splash the dress and, embarrassed apologizing, change into a home silk dressing gown with a belt (not provocative, not provocative).
Sit on the couch and leaf through the children's photo album. Mixed with humorous commentaries and stories, you continue to touch the man fleetingly and "accidentally" kiss. Funny stories about "exploits" and laughter bring together, at this time, take his hand or press her to his face, without forgetting to make small compliments, like "You're just a miracle!".
Then - a long gentle look and a kiss (modest or not). A man can respond to affectionate touch or immediately zasobiraetsya home. Take his hands and sincerely, tenderly and warmly say how wonderful he is and how you like it. You can embrace your "modest man", kiss and say about your readiness for a closer relationship. If after all this, the gentleman does not give up, then get ready for a hundred hikes in the cinema and a tea cistern.
Bring it to the end
If you managed to bring the case to sex, then exclude all vulgar and vulgar hints and sayings. And a few more tips:
Robust and inexperienced men can forget about condoms;
Lower lingerie should be easily removed;
Choose unobtrusive aromas and make-up, exclude the smell of cigarettes. Excessive abuse of this can deprive the guy of potency;
In the dance for slow music, do not hug him too much, so that he does not hesitate to be excited.
Most of our men have not looked like pushy macho for a long time. Many are embarrassed or afraid of explicit sexual acts and desires. Therefore, women have to learn activity in intimate matters and help men get rid of different complexes.