Behavior leading to a break in relations

Problems with trust and mutual understanding can arise from time to time even with the most loving and harmonious couple. However, there are separate models of behavior, leading in the vast majority of cases to an irreversible break in relations. If your behavior corresponds to one of these types - grab for yourself urgently. Change, otherwise each subsequent relationship will invariably end with parting, disappointment and loss of faith in true love.


Suspicion

Excessive suspicion and shadowing on your part will kill in a short time even the purest and most love. You will first "get" the partner with constant questions "gdeety?", "With whom are you?", And then go down to search his pockets in search of a personal note. It is unlikely that any normal man will have enough patience for such a long time to withstand such a humiliating distrust and complete disregard for his right to personal space.

Be sure to respect your partner, build relationships with him on mutual trust. If uvas have any specific doubts - try to call his open conversation. But do it very gently, know how to apologize in time, translate the conversation if you see that there is no reason for your jealousy. If you feel that your suspicion is pathological, ask for help from a psychologist.

Comparison

Constantly involuntarily compare your partner with other men. Make this grubo, right in the face, and these comparisons are not at all in favor of your man. Then your relationship will definitely be doomed to failure. Any man wants to be considered a unique - remember this! Men are very proud and touchy, do not "sow" somewhere in the depths of the partner's partner's doubt that he is not the only one for you. And comparisons are so stupid in nature. If you do not like everything in person, then why are you with him, and not with Oleg's "ideal" or "hard-working" Dmitri? The meaning is to "blow your brains out" to your partner every day, if you continue to cheat, despite his shortcomings with respect to others?

Take charge of mentally counting up to ten each time you want to say out loud with other representatives of the stronger sex. Are you categorically dissatisfied with your partner? Talk with him as calmly as possible, necessarily offering a compromise exit from this situation. Remember: you can express indignation only about the qualities that a man can correct. It is inhuman to compare your spine-afflicted man with a neighbor who "wears a wife every day on his hands." Let your mind go ahead of the tongue.

Habit of complaining

Do not run complaining about your man every time you have a problem in your relationship. It is clear that you want to certainly throw out your emotions, so that you immediately feel emotionally. However, do you want to maintain a relationship with a man? If you decide for yourself that yes, then your personal problems need to be solved independently. Do not involve rinsing the "family clothes" of friends and relatives. They will certainly listen to you with interest, give a lot of valuable advice, even share their experience, but this is unlikely to help you.

Remember: all people are different, situations are not exactly alike. Most likely, your friends will "wind up" you so that you will lose the ability to assess the situation objectively. Try to find a reasonable compromise on your own by the Spartner. In addition, how ashamed it is then before people, when the affairs of the loved ones will be settled. How much mud has been poured into his address, and now you, like everyone else, have been deceived. So, it's not such a bad one, since you stayed with them all as before.

Scandals

Is this a widespread women's weakness (or stupidity?) - to make scandals out of nothing. It is important to understand from the outset that men in general attach less importance to the vital "little things" that we, women, seem to be important moments of life. You need to take into account such a man's feature and not to arrange dirty, without a hint of intellect disassembly because of the scattered housework and other things that are so important with your "bell" things.

Men are very distressed and very tired of these small "bazaar" scandals. They consider women, their suitants, eternally unhappy with the life of the Meggers. Take it easy with yourself, the fate of ignoring these "little things." You will save not only the relationship, but also the own nervous system.

Not forgiveness

Learn the priceless science of forgiving. If even the conflict "resolved" by itself, talk about this problem in a calm environment. Recognize your mistakes and apologize to the partner. Any truce in the absence of the expressed forgiveness will still remain in your memory a dark spot. This will constantly remind you of the conflict. Only a complete reconciliation with forgiveness will not leave negative impressions in the soul, becoming truly delicious.

Problems are in any relationship. But if in time to determine what exactly prevents you from harmoniously coexisting together, you can avoid an unjustified break. And, on the contrary, if you stupidly "bend your line" and do not want to change for the sake of a loved one for the better, then you will not have any relationship. Such is the truth of life.