At the same time, of course, is it important for you to maintain a trusting and open communication style? Then this material is for you! Let's work out together how to behave with your loved ones, how to seem to a girl a mystery. But all in order.
Start with the simplest. Try to understand yourself, calmly and unbiassedly assess your personal qualities. Are you a simple and open person? Always tell the truth in the eyes, sometimes not even the most pleasant? Are you sincere and spontaneous? And, maybe, on the contrary, you often have something to say in communication with family and friends? In the company sometimes you can be silent, from the direct answer to a question quite often leave? By honestly and frankly answering these questions, you will be able to better know yourself, to reveal the character qualities that are characteristic only for you. Without this, it is impossible to create a new image, regardless of whether the changes in your image are holistic and global, or whether you want to change only certain features in yourself.
Having clearly identified your luggage (that is, already existing character traits, your style of communication with friends and behavior in the company), you can go further. Start to change, and not only for your boyfriend, but for everyone around you. After all, if you behave differently with different people (for example, with your beloved boyfriend and everyone else), then all that you can achieve will be insincere and fake. It is impossible (well, except in the most exceptional cases!) To play several roles well. After all, you play your own life! So, if you want to give your personal image of mystery, you really need to become more mysterious and interesting. Try it!
Psychologists say that any habit is formed 21 days. Remember this! Only about a month you will need a little more to listen than to speak. It is important to try to be frank on everyday issues not with a beloved man, but with women - friends, mom, neighbor. You can afford to spend 5 to 10 minutes on dates. It's even better to get new or remember an old hobby. Let it be at least knitting, even embroidery, although beadwork, it does not matter! A hobbyist is always interesting! Your hobby is also an additional topic for conversation, and the source of your self-improvement, and the outlet (believe me, not only for you.) A man is also pleased to realize that his beloved something can flash!)
In fact, to seem interesting and a bit mysterious for a guy, you just need to be yourself. After all, any girl whose personal interests even slightly go beyond just shopping and phone gossip, is able to cause and for a long time to keep the men's interest in themselves. It is important only to behave as if this interest from the guys you already have. Extraordinary importance here is your inner spirit. If you pretend to the guys that you are an attractive person, but within yourself you are not sure of this - there will be no success! You have to work on yourself, and in the most serious way.
Remember the heroine of the famous film, which repeated to herself: "I am the most charming and attractive! I'm terribly like men! "So you should have the same principle. You must believe inside yourself that you have enough charm and mystery to remain attractive to the stronger sex. This self-confidence is sensitively felt by the people around you (which is very important, and not only your boyfriend, because he is probably discussing (well, at least!) You with his friends. And if his friends also feel in you a woman's charm, mystery and charm , then it will only be to your advantage.) The loved one can once again make sure that he was not mistaken in the choice!)
To be (and not just to seem) enigmatic and attractive, a girl should not be too accessible - in all senses. Men are hunters by nature. They do not like too easy prey! Therefore do not run immediately on a date, even to the long-awaited guy! Hold a pause (but do not overdo it), sometimes refuse a date (but for a good and understandable reason!), Do not rush to get too close together. The longer a guy achieves a girl, the more he will appreciate your relationship. But you can not seem to be a buka, otherwise it will just go away. Be easy in communication, attractive, romantic, be yourself, but do not rush to resolve everything at once. Let him enjoy courtship, make sure that he seeks you, wants this relationship. And then and after years you both will remember this time as a wonderful period of romance and beauty!
I want to warn you from the other extreme. With women's mystique, as with spices - you can not report, but you can not go too far. If the guy is in you at every turn, some puzzles, it can push him away. Not everyone likes instead of beautiful relationships (calm or, conversely, passionate) is always just to do that, to bump into half-words, hints and solve riddles. The result of such a relationship for both of you can be cooling or breaking. Think, do you need this? Certainly not. So be careful. Remember that for a guy, your true qualities are always more important, however awkward they might seem to you. Yes Yes! After all, we often underestimate ourselves seriously. We do not want to adequately assess our sincerity, women's trustfulness, sincerity. It seems to us that the beloved already knows in advance where we will sulk and resent him, and where we turn the matter into a joke. But take a closer look at your relationship. Perhaps, just this spontaneity and liked you in your chosen one? Maybe with you he feels strong, courageous, reliable? Perhaps, it is your female weaknesses that set off his male rudeness of nature?
Remember that you can remain a mystery girl only when the halo of uniqueness and mystery will be natural for you, not contrived. Men are very sensitive to falsehood. And if you play with him, deliberately obscurely talk, specially draw, then many good guys, this behavior can simply be repulsed. Do not do this. Instead of such tactics, try to find in yourself those real features of mystery, female uniqueness, which are inherent to you. When you discover them, you will only have to learn not to hide them from others (including, of course, from a loved one). And then you really will be mysterious and unique for men. And you can keep your attractiveness for a loved one for many years.