This, not to mention a younger generation, among which you can hear the nicknames of not only the class of animals, but also things, toys, as well as natural phenomena. Why do we give our beloved cute nicknames? Can not you show all love by addressing by name?
Psychologists claim that all of these our nicknames are a very good indicator of sexual relations and the alignment of forces between partners. After all, we can distinguish each other thanks to the names that parents gave us. But caressing words - this is a password for passing to your personal territory. Concerning others, as they call you, you decide, one lets you call yourself Irochka, and the other only Irina Stanislavovna.
Concerning the publicity of sweet names and nicknames to loved ones, in public they are only used by couples who have problems within their relationships. Calling each other "bunnies" in public, they try to show that they are all fine and there are no problems, and that the new status suits them completely. But in fact - it's just a shell, and not very strong.
Partisans hide their nicknames from the outside world, because they believe that the world is just an addition to their happiness.
Meaning of nicknames
Only at first glance it may seem that all the nicknames are the same and have the same meaning, caressing. But! It turns out that the "pupsik" and "sparrow" are significantly different. In order to understand the purpose for which you were given a nickname, we will analyze their classification.
"Coming from childhood"
Sometimes we involuntarily become witnesses to absurd situations, when a wife calls her husband-to-be "baby". This, of course, can be justified by the fact that we all love children, sweet and harmless creatures. Therefore, we compare men with children. What does this innocent desire say ?
And it says about the desire to dominate the man. Most women go for it unconsciously, and some, thus, try to "drive the man under the heel". Also often, wives do this because they feel responsible for a large child. After all, it is necessary to feed it, and wash it and put it to bed. Therefore, in the case of children's nicknames, women give them, feeling the maternal responsibility for the "baby".
"Animal world"
Probably, nicknames from the animal world - this is the most common phenomenon. Such naming is used more often by "loving doves", by the way, the term from the same opera. Unlike the children's world, there are a lot of animals in the animal. Therefore, you can call a loved one and prickly hedgehog and wild tiger, depending on the partner's temperament.
Some couples bend the permissible side and call each other behemoths, platypuses, crocodiles, which in itself looks cute only at first glance. Do not forget about the sexual life, because such nicknames are unlikely to excite your partner, rather repel. Also in this area there is a problem with stereotypes and repetitions. Many girls and guys do not think about that, when we call a partner a "hare," we equate it with the rest of the "hare". And to be like someone else does not want at all, and in general, why then come up with these cute nicknames, if they have already become like names.
Toys
Representatives of this department are often called "dolls" or "puppies". The idea of naming is in the external beauty, because dolls are practically thoroughly beautiful creations. Therefore, if you are so called, it should flatter. The problem is this. Dolls are not only beautiful figures, but also dead ones. Most often they are perceived as a beautiful thing, which is nice to show the surrounding world, and for the body is also nice. Typically, these girls choose rich men and buy their "dolls" beautiful houses and dresses.
"Private property"
Many men and women tend to choose all the best and appropriate on a legal basis, such as marriage. In order to determine how much your male owner is, follow his vocabulary about you. If he instead of calling you "good" says "my good" or if instead of "dear" - "my dear" - this means that your man is not used to sharing and since you are with him, you belong only him.
Tanya or Tanya?
Many couples do not understand why they should give their beloved nicknames. They prefer to use a name, maximum in a caressing form. Psychologists argue that there is a whole classification of suffixes that bear meaning and show the attitude of the person who is addressing.
For example, suffixes "-echka" and "-ochka" - Tanechka, Allochka, Vanechka, show a respectful, polite and friendly attitude toward the interlocutor. In addition, such forms of names are also used in an official setting where they express the very fact of a benevolent attitude.
In general, psychologists say that the presence of gentle nicknames in the relationship is necessary. They adjust attitudes to a benevolent correct mode. Also, psychologists emphasize the tendency that the more, more often and more inventively each other's partners call, the more promising development of their life together and a happier marriage. In the opposite case, when the number of teasers decreases, this indicates that the relationship is cooling down, and partners become bored with each other.
For example, in Malaysia, the state, having attended to the number of divorces of citizens, appealed to them with an appeal to love each other, cherish, and necessarily caress and call tenderly, concocting new nicknames.
Therefore today we call each other "seals" and "rabbits" not because they are similar to them, but because we love them. And compare with the animals we love the most. Although the time of comparison is also inherent, because if a man is very active in bed, he is called a "wild tiger", and if he is passive, it is just a "tiger cub". But men do not take offense even at a tiger cub, because not everyone has a hot Spanish temperament, someone and calm, balanced sex suits.