But how do you remember how much effort was put to achieve the desired meeting, or phone number. And even if it did work, then there was further agonizing expectation and excessive excitement.
But the first experience is not always successful, which often causes the teenagers to lock themselves up. Modern psychology has made a big step forward in studying the development of relations, including the first. There are many techniques, techniques and secrets that young people should be easier to take the first step, to attract attention to themselves, as well as to establish contact with the opposite sex.
Usually the most stressful situations are experienced by guys, because, as is customary, they should seek the attention of the lady of her heart, not the turnover. But how to do that? How to show the girl that you want to be her boyfriend, and yet make no mistake?
There are some tips for a beginner donjuan, let's look at them.
Council number 1.
In order to show the girl that you want to be with her, you must first draw her attention to yourself. Usually guys think that in order to enjoy it it is necessary to be cute, romantic and sometimes even glamorous. But for some reason, everyone forgets about women's love for "bad guys". Let them and do not become a lady of the heart for life, but the experience of communication with such a gentleman in the soul wants to get everyone. Usually men of this type take their uninhibited behavior, some kind of insolence, impudence, direct expression of desires. Remember that a woman at any age by nature hunter, and she does not need a victim, which itself crawled and is ready for use. Over time, there will be a reassessment of life values, but initially a woman, as well as a man, must be conquered. Yes, and she will be pleased to recognize herself as a winner, because harm many fans, you choose it.
Therefore, if upbringing and acting abilities are allowed by such reincarnation - act. Very soon you will see hunting interest in the eyes of your chosen one.
Council number 2.
Remember that the girl's personality is not straightforward, and the answer is "yes, no, probably" - rather a rule than an exception. So learn to read between the lines and act. Usually in relationships such behavior the woman tries to keep a share of intrigue and thereby give the man the right to choose and freedom of action. Be persistent, but do not get bored, girls like when they are asked. If you still find the strength to approach her and invite him on a date, then go this way to the end, without stopping after a terrible "no, I probably can not." In this phrase, the emphasis is more on "probably" than on "no." Do not hesitate to find out the reason, and give several arguments in favor of walking with you. The reasons can be the most banal: you know the point with the most delicious ice cream or sushi, the release of a new film, the desire to talk about something important, or the fact that the company is all in pairs, and you would like that this evening she was with you. You can ask for help without any remorse, paying attention, for example, to her good taste in clothes, music, films, fantasy when choosing gifts, show the girl what you need in her. Women are very fond of helping people. And nothing will prevent you, after a successful purchase, "wash" a new thing for a cup of tea in your favorite cafe.
Council number 3.
Sometimes you can not get a girl right away. Often, before you go to a long-awaited appointment, and you and the lady of the heart are changing several partners, and even there are marriages. But for this period, while the girl for some reason is not available, try not to create a role for yourself, for which the relationship is more like a sports race. And the number of girls under the "tick", exceeds any notion of the norm. Such men are usually worried and attract ladies. It is alarming, the fact that, going to the meeting, the girl clearly understands what it can end, and that tomorrow no one will even call her. But all the same goes, and diligently prepares. And it attracts such an opportunity to at least try as it is, let tomorrow it will be insulting and annoying. Also, such men do not inspire confidence, and your sensual impulses will not be reduced to serious intentions, but simply as a way to win.
Tip # 4.
If the hardest thing is behind, it does not mean that you need to relax. You have already had more than one meeting, but it does not end as you would like. Usually few of the couples begin to meet after the official offer, all the words replace the first kiss. Therefore, the best way to show the girl that you want to be her boyfriend is this pleasant gesture. Usually it's enough to wait for a certain moment, when you will remain tete-a-tete. The main sign that the girl does not mind is her behavior. Usually in such situations they do not rush to run to the entrance, they begin to thank for the evening, while, cute shooting their eyes, they start muttering something like "Well, I went .." or "I'm already waiting for my mother," " will call and so on. If you notice this - act. Such a moment can not be spoiled, and then everything will be decided by itself, without superfluous words.
Tip # 5.
After everything has already been decided, and you can proudly call yourself a couple, do not change your course, do not move away from the responsibility of the relationship, even if everything is not as you imagined. Do not stop trying to get a girl. The most erroneous opinion of men is that if they agreed to a relationship, then it will not go anywhere. Sharp behavior change, can cause a sense of indifference, and misunderstanding. And accordingly, the continuation of relations and speech can not be. Therefore, if a girl is really dear to you, appreciate the moments when you are together, take care of the feelings, and get only pleasure from the relationship.