Let's just say that a woman who constantly complains about her life is an unlucky woman. As a rule, all our life goals are aimed at striving for the ideal: we want to look good, dress well, earn well and have a good rest. In addition, we want a good, perfect husband. But, since in the world nothing is perfect, even we, with the truth in the face, are not ideal, there can not be an ideal husband.
The ideal is a certain standard, to which one should strive. It can be a standard of beauty, a standard of good behavior and, of course, the standard of the husband. The ideal husband, painted by your imagination, is that set of internal qualities, external data that your companion should have in life. For many modern girls, the ideal man and husband is also a financially secure person. So everything is individual, because everyone has their own requests about men's "90-60-90".
But, after all, you should not build illusions and look for the transcendental prince, around there are many men with their big and small flaws and virtues. Excessively touching, even with the possibility of choice, you can stay with nothing. If you come to the store, where a tempting action will take place, and you will choose very long, you can stay with nothing. There is always a more nimble buyer who knows what he wants, and in the period of your thinking he will safely enjoy his purchase. And with men. There is always one that sees in your potential elect a worthy party and, of course, does not miss it.
Ideal qualities of the ideal husband
And now we will consider what kind of set of qualities an ideal husband should have. But, I want to note that for every woman there are priorities and principles, and for some even an ideal is an independent man with the right to treason. Naturally, a woman chooses a husband that pleases her, and if she needs freedom of relationship in her family life, she also seeks her husband with similar life principles and morals. But, as a rule, after all, a woman wants to see in her husband a loyal, easy-going and responsible family man.
So, the ideal husband is this:
- A man who loves you and loves you. I think that comments are not needed here.
- A man who does not have bad habits, it is desirable that he does not drink or smoke.
- A loyal and reliable family man. The other half, still called a husband or wife. Together they are one whole. The ideal husband will always support in a difficult moment, find the right words, reproaches - not the lot of an ideal man.
- A beautiful husband is the ultimate dream of many girls and women. Yes, it's always nice to contemplate a handsome man, especially when he is slender and well-built. But this aspect of your choice should not be leading. Sometimes behind the beauty you can not see serious flaws. Once my friend confessed that she was very fond of her husband, attractive appearance. But marriage radically changed everything, appearance fell into the background, more important were the inner qualities of a man, with which he did not shine.
- Sex ... The ideal husband should be good in bed, good for you. Whatever one may say, but without mutual satisfaction, there can not be an ideal relationship. And not the main thing in the amount of his male dignity. The main thing is that the husband wants to give you pleasure, and if he wants it, then, of course, everything will turn out.
- It would be nice if the husband was the main earner in the family. But the husband is not an ATM, and do not put pressure on him, if today he can not allow you everything you want. Reproaches can have a devastating effect on family relationships. A woman for her husband is a muse, and she did not drink, remember this. Marriage by calculation is, most likely, a self-interested "contract", but not love. But, as I said, everyone has his own. If this is your ideal, then boldly strive for it.
Well, and at last. A woman who wants to see her ideal husband should think about the qualities an ideal wife should have. If only "take" and not give, then the ideal husband can turn into an imperfect husband and vice versa.
If you are looking for a future husband, look for and strive for the best, but do not dream of a fairy prince, because you need a man with all his strengths and weaknesses, and not a fictitious illusion. Are you already a wife? I do not think you could marry a non-ideal man. Quarrels, conflicts, misunderstandings - this is only a step to the truth, but not to disappointment. Look closely, find in it a lot of pluses among several minuses, and, perhaps, make the very first step on the way to the ideal and pleasantly surprise your husband. What should be the ideal husband you already know, so there is always something to strive for. And do not reproach your men, even if they are not what you want them to be. Praise and approval is a sure stimulus in the pursuit of a better life.