Constant work on oneself, inner harmony, work on one's own perfection should become a life principle for every person. Couples who understand marriage as a creative movement and work together in the right direction will be successful than those couples who, because of a sense of loneliness, have joined their destinies.
Few of us know that the lovers change the biochemistry of their body. Love fills the soul and changes a person's personality, fills it with a gaying gas, and then a man in love begins to see the world in pink glasses. Love dazzles many people, couples think that they will be together. But this fun-filled gas evaporates and eventually passes through insight, and the magic feeling just disappears. One pair per million can keep an unusual state of harmony and love.
How to start living together
It happens that couples under the influence of this feeling began to live together, but sooner or later they wake up and will not be able to get to know each other. Partners will find that they were bewitched, they were intoxicated and deceived, so they did not notice the true face when they finally faced the truth. And these transitional relations in these relations, as a rule, can not be tracked. There is irritation, discontent, and this worsens the situation even more. Partners see changes in their halves, and do not feel anything inside themselves. To maintain a relationship you need to respect the feelings of your partner.
There are secrets as to how to keep good friendships in a pair. Do not deprive your partner and your right to idealize. But this does not need to get too involved, because your ideas about your partner should be related to reality. Imagine your future with a partner, how you will live together, together solve family problems, how together you will raise children. It is better to agree on everything in advance, you should study your half well, what are his views on the world. Listen to the opinion of his relatives and friends.
In case of conflict and quarrel, try to repeat what your interlocutor said about you, before this each time insert the phrase "if I understood correctly". Maybe you, not so correctly understood or, something not so have heard. It is a big mistake when, at a quarrel, the partners, not having listened to the end, start throwing each other accusations and begin to cursing. Do not rush to respond to slander and accusation, you need to be a wise and prudent woman. Do not be sad if there is a crisis in your relationship, because all these states are temporary. And then in your relationship with a loved one, love and mutual understanding will return.
Advice:
Our world is a school, therefore it is necessary to strive, not to stop on the achieved results and always to improve them. If you become, constantly learn, and will do this throughout your life, then you will learn something new, and this will help in solving many problems. Man is not perfection, but he always, strives, to such a state
We know how you can start living with your loved one. You do not need to demand perfection from a partner, because he is a person like you, and has his right to make mistakes. You will only be able to orient your half to perfection.