No matter how difficult it is to believe it, but the signs of attention and romance are not empty words for the stronger sex. Every man always likes when his beloved for all his courtship reciprocates and uses various romantic gestures. Man's pride so comforts the thought that his chosen one at moments when he is not around, thinks of him! Nevertheless, the individual signs of attention provided by a woman at a time not suitable for this can not only cause a man to fear, but also break the love idyll and force him to disappear from your life. In order to avoid this in your relationship, you should find out which signs of care you can, and which can not be shown to a man during periods of different stages of the relationship.
The first stage: the birth of a love relationship
At this very stage, not only you, but all around you understand that you are crazy about your chosen one. But you should not "drive too many horses!". The most dangerous in the initial stage of relations is considered to be the separate attention of a woman to a man. Frequent and constant calls, SMS messages and messages on social networks, expensive and exquisite gifts, family meals in his honor, in which the best culinary masterpieces are embodied, simply can cause suspicion in the man. After all, at this point in the beginning of the relationship, the man, as a rule, does not expect much from the lady. By their nature, they are only programmed for sex and can not dream about anything else. Certainly, you need to give him to understand that he likes you, but this is best done with barely noticeable signs of attention. For example, you can take his hand at the moment of your walk through the park, whisper to him at a party about how irresistibly he looks in these new jeans and a stylish shirt, etc. By the way, when choosing a gift for your trustworthy by the holiday, you should remember about one rule that says: "The less, the better." The most appropriate option is considered to be that it can also be used. For example, you know that your boyfriend likes a certain beer, so why do not you give him a few bottles of this drink. But just do not give any nice little things like plush toys or key rings for keys. Representatives of the stronger sex are not able to appreciate such gifts. This is due not to the lack of sentimentality on the part of men, but to the fact that they simply can not understand them at all.
Second stage: you are already officially considered a couple
In the so-called second stage, your love relationship can be given a certain period. Of course, you are very well together, but in the future you still have a joint future, which probably did not. At this time, your romantic signs of attention should be aimed at ensuring that you are well acquainted with the true one for yourself: you are a couple and he can rely on you in any situation. For example, he came home from work very tired from the fact that he had a hard and full day, why do not you offer him a relaxing massage, cook a delicious dinner or just brew a cup of cappuccino with milk. If you do not have time to come home to his arrival and know about it in advance, leave a letter for your loved one nasam prominent place, where you write in warm words everything that you think about and how you miss. These signs of attention will surely be able to show him that he is for the road.
What can not be done? All that can cause your beloved suspicion that you are trying to invade his personal space. For example, you call his mom to find out the recipe for his favorite pancakes, which you want to cook for the upcoming holiday (maybe he does not want you to talk with his mom at all). By the way, all your gifts should not be obliged to a man. Nboraudiodiskov with his beloved band is good, but the car radio is bad. Dearparfum - well, a set of expensive care products - bad. Also, try to avoid all those gifts that directly call for your exhibiting on public display. For example, a love letter is good, and a love text printed on a cup is bad. You need to give what you need now, not tepodarkas, which are inherently oriented to the future.
The third stage: time-tested love
You together and everything says that this is forever. At least, you dream of a compatible future. You are already familiar with parents, relatives and close friends of each other and surely congratulate them with all the holidays and even give gifts. Of course, it is possible that at this point you are a husband and wife. It is precisely at this stage of the relationship that your loved one wants you to tirelessly prove to him that he is your only beloved. So you need to show all your wit to show him that your feelings have not cooled down and are just as strong as the first days of relations. Spoil his love SMS messages, plan a joint trip for the weekend or holidays somewhere in a secluded and romantic place, where except for you and him there will be no one. It would be nice to dilute the relationship to arrange the evening of fulfillment of desires (tell your loved one that it is exactly today that you realize all three absolutely any of his wishes). Still a good way to call your attempts to do everything in such a way that it reminds you of your very first dates. Also it would be nice to sit in one of the days off with your beloved and a bottle of wine, remembering your first meeting: what were you wearing, what did you do, what did you say, etc. give your favored disk with a selection of dear and beloved for both of you songs. Make an album with photos of the happiest moments of your love story. But as for the gift, at this stage of the relationship, it should be as serious as ever. Give him what he dreamed of for a long time, but for any reason he can not afford it. Remember that the most romantic signs of attention are those that will constantly remind your chosen one of the love ovashi and the fact that you are the most ideal couple in the whole world with him, and nothing, inikto can not separate you!