How to win the love of colleagues

Many mistakenly believe that with high professionalism and respect from colleagues, love and sympathy is not needed. But it has been repeatedly proven by practice and concrete life situations that the love of colleagues and superiors is the main engine of your career. Even employers themselves recognize that when conducting interviews, they will first of all pay attention to whether the person is sympathetic or not, how he behaves toward others, how charming he is, and only then on his professional qualities and knowledge. So how do you win the love of your colleagues?
Be friendly to your colleagues. Do not forget to greet colleagues, smile, be sincere, as far as possible, help colleagues on their own initiative, do not wait for requests for help. Be compliant, learn to accept others' opinions and opinions. People do not like those who do not agree with the majority opinion. Be able to listen and accept other people's points of view. Feel free to show your emotions, be sincere in their manifestation. Talk about your good attitude to your colleagues, make as many sincere compliments, talk about how you missed a person who was on vacation or sick. Be honest in your words, behavior. People very well feel falsehood and deceit, a deceitful attitude for their own benefit. With this attitude, you will smile in the face, but whisper behind your back. But do not overdo it, remain yourself, do not forget about your principles and views.

If you want to win the love of colleagues, do not argue constantly. It's one thing to express one's point of view on a contentious issue, and the other is the desire to be right at all costs, and to win in a dispute. In this case, you lose the thread of the most contentious issue and just compete in eloquence.

Do not forget to congratulate your colleagues on the most insignificant holidays, at least with words. This will raise the mood to those whom you congratulate and cause a smile. And for significant holidays, especially if it's a new collective for you, bring a cake or homemade cookies to tea.

Take the initiative. Agree to help your colleagues if you are not busy at this moment. Take part in the discussion of common working issues, the solution of some problems of the team, offer your options for solving this or that problem.

If possible, spend some free time with colleagues, find common hobbies. Maybe it will be a joint hike in bowling, or a weekend trip for fishing, or maybe a joint lunch in a sushi bar with a Japanese lover. Look for points of contact with your colleagues not only in work, but also in rest.

Take for yourself the rule never and with anyone not to gossip, not to participate in intrigues, not to lie in front of the authorities, not to discuss someone from colleagues behind their backs, not to sneer and not to criticize. By avoiding this, you will prove yourself to be honest and reliable. If someone tries to tell you confidential information, personal secrets, then, after listening to the interlocutor, forget about what you heard and do not tell any of your colleagues what you were entrusted with.

To win the love of colleagues, do not refuse to participate in corporate events and parties. Participate in the cultural life of your organization.

Thus, if you want to achieve success at work and move up the career ladder, then you just need to win the love of colleagues. Feel the spirit of the collective, its atmosphere and be a part of this collective. And remember the wisdom of the world: do to people as you want them to do to you.