And most importantly, you simply do not understand why all this is happening, why most people chose you, as it seems to you, as a scapegoat. Before you understand what to do, when you are hated at work, figure it out in yourself, find the reasons why you are treated so negatively. There can be a large number of them.
" In each barrel plug ".
Such an expression is usually used when a person can not listen, listen and constantly strives to correct the speaker's words, and all words of the speaker have such a person always find something to answer. Usually such a reason is very significant, especially if such a phenomenon occurs at work. If you are one of them, then you should understand why you are so hated at work. You always have an opinion, because you are no longer erudite of any of your many colleagues. Only you are confident in what you say, and most importantly, that your words should always be or are right and true. All that you do is necessarily the most important and important thing, and that only you have the honor to do the most important work at work. Therefore, no one has the right to contradict you, let alone give a word, which leads you to a constant interruption, even if it concerns such a trivial topic as a scarlet rose, it will still be a beautiful and red flower for you.
" Lonely and proud bird ".
It's easier for you to be alone in your free time, to drink tea, have breakfast or have dinner, you just like to spend your free time in peace and quiet. And to invite you to an event, in order to participate in it, and that there you had to do something unusual for you, you need to put a lot of effort into persuading you and giving examples of how it might be interesting. Yes, what can I say, it's even hard for you to just talk first, start a conversation on an interesting topic at work.
" Workaholism is not a good trait at all ."
You are so busy with your work that you can not give a minute to just talk about something with your colleagues. But you have so much that you do not even know how to cope with it, in order to start a new one, maybe not related to you. You diligently and categorically honestly try to do it all one hundred percent, that you do not leave your time sometimes just to get a breath of fresh air, even into the corridor, not to mention the simple airing of the room in which you sit all day strictly from the beginning to the end of the working schedule. Okay else, if the rest of the day, and in fact often you just sit out until late at night. Of course, because no one except you can perform your work also qualitatively, which is absolutely not peculiar also to do to your colleagues, they are just waiting for the prompt completion of work. You do not even think about what to do if your colleagues hate you, because you just have no time!
" To keep secrets is not about you !".
If it happened that one of your employees trusted you with something that he did not want to light up other colleagues, and you, without considering it so important, simply "disheveled" about it to almost all of your colleagues. Usually such a character trait as excessive talkativeness is not generally welcomed in everyday life, it is one of the main reasons why people are hated. Learn to be the person who wants to trust the secrets, not for a moment doubting that you never and for no reason disclose trusted only to you secrets and secrets.
" You have your own opinion on everything ."
The opinion of another colleague you do not put in anything, you must challenge him. Even if one of your workers' company has put forward its opinion on any happened occasion, while leading worthy examples and evidence. You still get into the conversation, well, after interrupting a colleague naturally, you will begin to tell him that he is deeply mistaken, that he is far from being right. You will be at the same time, may be understating the self-esteem of the interlocutor, because telling a person about his wrong, this, to put it mildly, is not very good. Every person has an opinion on this or that fact of what happened, after all, it is not for nothing said that all people are different, and so are thoughts, too.
" You can not take it with you ."
Even if it concerns neglected and left on someone else's desk documents or folders that you folded when searching for the document you need, sorting through and retrieving all these folders. At the same time, saying that you will clean up everything afterwards. Agree that you were, to put it mildly, unpleasant to discover unexpectedly for yourself a mountain of incomprehensible documents on your desk, as well as your or your colleague. This can also apply to unwashed dishes, which is not difficult to guess who is the master of all this good, even on a common kitchen place, whether it's a table or a cabinet, not to mention someone else's workplace.
" They say about you that you are an avid sycophant ."
About such as you can still say that you are not all right with your head, because you are always funny and cheerful when it comes to the words of the authorities, which sometimes it is difficult to understand where the humor, and where just words. Of course, because for you everything that the leadership says, all the most important, important, correct and interesting, and especially funny, when it says with fun. Here's your and not always appropriate laughter and annoying all your colleagues, and that's why maybe that's why you hate it. Worse yet, you always try to praise your bosses, they say, what it is rightly strict and responsible, etc., despite the fact that many simply can not stand it.
" The real loudspeaker ."
What's so funny is that you just do not notice or you do not want to notice. You often have to talk on the phone, whether it's from work, the conversations of which are part of your duties, whether it's chatter with a girlfriend or relatives. And you do it pretty loud, that you can hear all the details of the conversation through the wall.
So get it right and then maybe no one will hate you anymore.