Not every woman is given a good hostess. Someone can not sleep peacefully, if there is one extra piece of paper on the table, and for someone not to vacuum for a month is the norm. But sooner or later each lady begins to understand that she still has to rebuild herself and cease to be a bad mistress. How can this be done?
The Mneniso side
When someone begins to criticize our home what is happening in it, we often get angry and declare that this is not their business. However, there is always a person to whose opinion we listen. Of course, initially we can also argue, even quarrel, but it is his words that are deplored in our head and will make us think. If you understand that you can not become a good hostess yourself - call such a person in your house and in no case should you prepare for his arrival, otherwise he may have a wrong opinion. Let everything be as it is in everyday life. By the way, by inviting such authority to your home, you do not need to tell him about the goal you called him. If you tell him, then later you will constantly think that he is too critical of you, because he is doing his duty. So just call him to visit, and then look at his reaction. Often, such an authoritative person is a very close person who is afraid to tell you the truth. Therefore, prepare for the fact that his words can become very offensive to you. But it is his opinion over time that will make you think and change something. Most likely, at first you will listen to it, then it will start to seem to you that he is kinking the stick and you will already accept his criticism with bayonets. But in the end result, when you analyze and reinterpret everything, you will understand that he is right, you will make conclusions and feel how you want to change something.
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Many landladies find it hard to do everything at once. At the thought of the general cleaning, they simply begin to pound and shudder. Therefore, they take a long time to get together with the spirit, before they get down to business and after a long time leave it. As a result, there is a long time between cleanings, for which the apartment is very dirty. To avoid this, you just do not need to do everything at once. Spread your workout evenly. What is it about? For example, today you clean your room and only it. And, cleaning can be stretched all day. Nobody makes you do it all at once. It is not important for what time interval you complete the task, and what will be the final result. Therefore, you can disassemble the rubble on the tables and watch the series, then dust and do something else. As a result, you will not feel such fatigue, which leads to monotony of work. The main thing is that you set a goal for yourself - to finish cleaning the room by evening and do not postpone the next day, because tomorrow you have to do another job, for example, wash windows everywhere. Cleaning the apartment in this way, you will not allow yourself to start everything, because cleaning will be done almost every day, but in small portions. Thus you will achieve that the apartment will be cleaned once a week, as required, and in fact you will spend hours cleaning it every day and even stop noticing it. This option is very convenient for lazy ladies who can not do what is of interest for a long time.
Ktorano gets up
On normal management of the economy, we are most often short of time also because we are setting the wrong schedule for ourselves. This especially applies to those who work at home. After waking up at four o'clock in the evening, the night comes and naturally, you want to rest, but do not do something about the house. Therefore, if you want to do everything, accustom yourself to be at least at one o'clock in the afternoon. Many will say now that it is so late, but be sure, there are those for whom it is too early. If you get up around noon, you will notice how much more time you will have. The fact is that as long as you do not like night wakefulness and a long sleep, a person in the genotype is physically and mentally working when the sun is shining. That's why if you want to have time and energy to do business, try to distribute your affairs so that the work and you did household chores at daylight, and in the evening and at night rested. We talked with friends and so on. Believe me, the more time you spend in the light, the longer the day will show. And if a lot of time, then why not allocate an hour for cleaning boozer. Of course, at first it will be difficult for you to live on a new schedule, but be sure, the body will rebuild very quickly, as daytime life is still more familiar, and you can manage everything and not feel that you are too lazy to do household chores and spoil your time on them.
Kitchen
Many women prepare the most primitive dishes that are absorbed in fast foods, because they think that it takes at least half a day to prepare something good. In fact, this opinion is wrong and wrong. If you are worried that you are a bad mistress, but do not want to change your way of living, then you just need to learn how to cook quickly and tasty. A mistress is not someone who can not stand by the oven for half a day, but she who feeds her guests with vermicelli fast cooking and soup from sachets. Therefore, first of all, you need to exclude such food from your diet. Not only does it obviously discredit you, as a housewife, it also has a negative effect on your health. A good housewife should always be able to prepare the first dishes. The secret is that you do not need to learn to make ten kinds of soups and borscht. It's enough to choose one that you like most and learn how to cook it. For example, to make a grilled soup, you do not need to spend a lot of time, while it turns out to be very satisfying and tasty. In general, so that you are not told that you are a layman in the kitchen, you just need to choose a few dishes that you like and quickly prepare, bring your mastery of cooking these dishes to mastery and you will never be told that you can not feed your own guests.
The ability to be a good hostess is not a special art given to the chosen ones, but the proper distribution of your time so that you can feel comfortable doing something.