Arguments
Screaming, swearing and crying is not an option. The more often you behave yourself, the more you convince your parents that you are a girl who does not know anything in life, so she thinks up all kinds of stupidity. Therefore, if you want to convey something to your family, one sit down and calmly explain to them how and for what reason you came to such a conclusion. Every woman has her own reason not to get married. Someone is striving for self-realization, someone wants to know his inner and our outer world, for some reason the meaning of life is helping other people. In any case, no matter how long they strive for, it is necessary to convey their motivation to parents correctly. How you will argue depends on what kind of family you have. In every family there are things to which people stretch, and those who do not understand and do not accept. You need to conduct a dialogue in such a way that your arguments can be accepted. For example, if your parents are not particularly interested in higher matters, and you are going on a journey that should reveal to you the secrets of spirituality, then it is better to say that you do not want to marry, because you have not yet seen the world, and this is for you happiness at this stage . In any case, what would you say, always try to choose the tactics that will most easily be taken by your parents. Remember that these people really love you. They just have completely different views on the situation. Unfortunately, it can not be said that parents do not always touch you with this question, but one can hope that the pressure will become weaker, or even disappear for a while.
Nespor'te and do not prove
If you see that normal conversations and the argument does not affect your parents at all - do not argue. When we argue, it's as if we admit that the opponent's point of view still has the right to live. Accordingly, a person begins to furiously and furiously something to show, and you are angry, irritated and do not know where to get out of your family. Therefore, just ignore such conversations. If the topic rises on the next family holiday, you can even get up and leave. Yes, your behavior can be incomprehensible and offensive to relatives and parents. But if they do not want to and do not even want to try to understand you, then it's worth paying them back with the same coin. Perhaps it's not very nice to do this, but it's better to just quit the conflict than quarrel with everyone and get to a nervous fit. Although the relatives of this do not understand, but in the prevailing circumstances it is you who act most sensibly. In addition, as practice shows, if people love you, then next time they think before raising such a topic, because they simply will not want you to leave the unity. Thus, you can get rid of at least matchmaking and infinite morals on family holidays.
Find an ally
It is very difficult to fight the opinion, if it is supported by absolutely all of your surroundings. That's why among the relatives, it is necessary to find someone who will be on your side. So figure out who would be persuaded to be right and talk to this person privately. It is desirable that they are someone from the older generation, whose opinion can be counted. If you find just such a person among your relatives, then the conversation and advice about the marriage will end much faster than when you tried to fight alone. Of course, this does not mean that you can fully convince the family of your rightness, but they will at least think about your words or try to enter into your situation. Of course, the best option would be your mom. If she supports and understands, then no one else will dare to strongly pressure it. After all, whatever it is, but the mother's opinion is always the most important, and even the most confident relatives are not daring to argue with him. But even if this person is not your mother, it will still be easier for you to transfer their advice and instructions, who feels even tacit support, ceases to react so sharply to the opposite opinion and try to prove something.
If you can not fight - go away
If you see that your family does not understand words or hints, then, unfortunately, there is only one thing left - simply to leave. Move to another apartment, or even to another city and try as little as possible to leave relatives for contact. At first they will be very offended, but then the modern will begin to reach them. And if they do not understand, then they will ask you what's wrong. You can calmly tell them the truth without hiding. The more clearly and clearly you indicate the reasons for such behavior, the sooner they begin to think about the fact that pressure is impossible to get something from a person. Over time, at least some members of your family learn to not give advice where they are not asked and keep an opinion about marriage.
Unfortunately, in other ways it is difficult to fight by squeezing from their relatives. They love us too much, but their brains are overthrown by norms and customs imposed by society. They do not allow themselves to admit that a person can have absolutely different desires and hopes. Do not be very much offended by their loved ones. In fact, they are even innocent of being so behaved. This is inherent in them in the genotype, because the women always oppressed and imposed on them the desire to be only a wife and mother. But the modern generation, which has finally received enough information, can analyze everything and make its choice without regard for society. Therefore, do not be afraid to do as you wish, and your family will sooner or later be driven away or, at least, will not impose their point of view on you.