In a person, a business or an idea, you can fall in love with insanity, before dizziness, which ceases with the thousandth "I love you" or just with time. But sometimes the feeling turns into a disease, and the butterflies in the stomach - into real dragons.
Stronger nowhereYou are ready to tell him "love" two hundred times a minute and forget about the concert of your favorite band, just to make him an evening tea. Every morning you read his sms, now and then you die from the thought that only death will separate you. His step to the right or look to the left is punishable by the inflation of the lips, because he is yours and only yours. Or, on the contrary, you love him enough that you allow you to walk as far as you like. And if one day the guy just does not come back? This is the case when too strong love is dangerous for your relationship.
To fall out of love
If such a passion overtook you at the beginning of the novel and it is reciprocal, do not fight - enjoy it, as it will soon end in a calm, serious relationship.
But if you are ready to erase all the contacts in the phone except him, and the guy every now and then makes excuses to spend even one evening without you, - think. Showing the guy that you have your hobbies, friends, dreams and independent plans for the weekend, you only strengthen the love - it will finally have air.
But yourself - more!
You are the best at school (even if you are three), you are stylish, you will be better known than Coco Chanel (even if you do not do anything for that) and is generally worthy of the "Miss Charm of the Century" medal (even if the lack of friends says the opposite). Or you were spoiled by love by relatives, or you, on the contrary, had a critical defect, but the result is in all senses: the strongest of your love is the love of your own reflection.
To fall out of love
Without self-love, a person will not strive for comfort, health and well-being, progress will stop, and in general the globe will cease to rot. In addition, self-confident people who know their own worth, loving people. But when love to yourself prevents you from loving someone else, provoke this love to others artificially.
Admiring the stars
Perhaps you admire an undergraduate, who plays a vyinosheskoy league, or a cousin of a friend who has a long bang. The common one - you have nothing in common, he does not know about you, and if he does, he remembers only in those ten seconds when he sees your face. And you put the insignia between his photograph on the wall and love, and amuse yourself with dreams that "one day he will understand everything."
To fall out of love
Love-admiration for someone who is more successful than you can awaken the talents and inspire something grand. Think about what you love the star for: appearance, talent, or simply because he is a star? If obnesnost, analyze the type that you like, and notice that the streets go a huge number of young men who can cause no less strong enthusiasm.
If you get numb from his talent, imagine that you'll be right tomorrow morning from home and meet Him. Do you have something to talk about? Thousand be interested in his unique personality, and not banal fanatskimyahami? The right way to reach the star is to become the star for yourself, your close ones, friends or the whole world, that is, realized in your life.
I'm a workaholic and I'll be proud of it.
You probably know the phrase: "There are two types of people: those who roll the world, and those who run alongside and shout:" Where does this world go? "
It is commendable that you treat yourself to the first and are ready to roll your peacekeep long and far, as far as you can. But are not you afraid at the end of the trip alone? If, for the sake of learning and career ambitions, you refuse to go to the movies and forget about the birthdays of your friends, friends will soon forget that you know how to have fun. And then they will not even find time for you - just like you are on them.
To fall out of love
Do not forget that the respite in the work only helps. Sum alternating work and rest, you will be in shape and will have time much more, as you will forget about overwork, depression and other headaches of workaholics.
Why are people non-birds?
You do not recognize the dress code, the rules of the road and the rule of friendship. You can drive to another city without notifying your parents and forgetting to pick up your little sister from a music school. And break the relationship, as soon as the MCH will become too strong. You can not promise anything and will never take responsibility for yourself, because you follow only the wind, the flow of life, your own desires - when. Most of all you love freedom and for the sake of not being able to sacrifice not only worn-out sneakers, but also other people's feelings.
To fall out of love
You confuse freedom and protest. Green hair, rudeness, absenteeism, insane adventures with unfamiliar people and attitudes of non-obedience are not freedom, but the pose of a little girl who wants to prove that she has already grown up. Or the desire to escape from the boredom of life and feel the heroine of the film, which all does not care. And this is a source of constant quarrels and other problems, which are no longer so much fun. You can really free yourself, only when you grow up. Take responsibility, respect and feelings of others, support your relatives, take life seriously. Then freedom will not be affected.
What else do you love and why is this threatening?
Donuts. This feeling threatens you with a double date - sgastroenterologom and nutritionist. So it was said: we love bad guys and everything, when from simple carrots you can build a tasty treat for yourself, beloved.
To help. Do people around you remember only when they need something? Respect yourself, know how to refuse - then others will see that you are not just a botanist with the inclinations of Mother Theresa, but an interesting girl with character.
Study. For study and work you have a whole life, and a sense of duty ... But let's not talk about sad things.
Mom. It is important for parents to understand that they have grown up not obedient to a doll, which you can dispose of for your own pleasure, but self-sufficient personality. This does not prevent you from listening to relatives in important matters and being an exemplary daughter.
A computer. He eats your days, nights and eyesight, but gives little in return. It is better to sit out this watch in an embrace with a real favorite or prepare a cake for classmates. The ones that are on this side of the screen.
Letters and a teddy bear. Dependence (from the fragments of the past is the most unpleasant thing - you can turn into Gogol's Plyushkin, only the sense of feelings.) You have to go light ahead.
Parties. New Year's and "Birthday" - cool! But you, in the cocktail frenzy of companies, are trying to forget about the problems, the constraint ...
Sex. Safe does not threaten anything. Well, only if you do not think physical proximity is the main engine of the relationship and you do not select the guys, like the casting director at the fashion show, forgetting about the fact that the soul to love is not less pleasant.
Beauty. Watching yourself, your clothes, the room and the planet is fine, if it does not turn you into a fundamental bore, with every sigh under vigilant control.
Be in love. It is better to die from love than to live without it, saying great. But only they did not exactly mean fanatical love to the pain, from which the life to both you and the one you love becomes absolutely not nice. After all, from real love you want to hug the whole world!