The most common fears of a young mother

Every mother has a natural desire for her child to be healthy and grow up in an atmosphere of love. Some mothers, having come home from the maternity hospital, try to surround their baby with care, and very often she becomes hypertrophied. Mom watches every movement of the baby, sigh, cry and many moments frighten her. And what if something is wrong with your beloved?
The 7 most common fears of young mothers


1. A baby cries a lot, I do something wrong
There are many reasons for crying from a baby, and your wrong actions are absolutely irrelevant. By crying, the kid lets you know that something does not suit him, maybe he wants to eat or just tired of lying down. First of all, check if the baby has a dry diaper, is not it hot, maybe he wants to eat.

The most common cause of crying baby in the first months of his life - it's intestinal colic. In the first three months, all newborns suffer from this. Doctors recommend 20 minutes before feeding to lay out the baby lying on his tummy.

Some babies can cry before they go to sleep. If you are sure that the baby is full, the diaper is clean, it's not hot, but at the same time a short-time crying precedes it - do not worry, this is quite normal phenomenon. Over time, all this will pass.

2. Fear of bathing a baby
Most parents have a fear of losing a child during water procedures. Especially this fear appears during bathing in the bathroom. Remember, in you nature is laid maternal instinct, and you definitely will not do it. Even if you accidentally allow the child to "go" under the water, do not panic, the baby has an instinct to hold his breath for up to three months.

After such an incident, the crumb suffices for a couple of seconds at an angle of 45 degrees, so that all excess water flows out and the baby clears his throat. After bathing the ears of the baby, blot out the flagellum from sterile cotton wool.

Remember, it's very important to be confident in your abilities, otherwise your excitement will be transmitted to the baby.

3. I spoil him
The kid constantly requires a lot of attention. Your heartbeat, smell and heat act on the baby soothingly. Try to take the baby on the pens, talk with him, feed on demand. Even if it happened that the baby is on artificial feeding, it is still better to feed it, holding it.

At all, do not go on the occasion of acquaintances and do not believe that the baby needs to "cry", this will depress the baby's nervous system.

If you have a fear that you will spoil the baby, then do not worry about it. You do not spoil the baby, but only give the love that is necessary to him, which contributes to the acceleration of his development.

4. The baby is hungry, he does not eat
This is one of the most frequent fears of many moms. Very often, the impression is that the child is hungry, he eats little and for the month he accumulates a catastrophically small amount. Most often, these experiences have no ground, you just need to track how much your baby is gaining weight, and if in the first couple of weeks the set is 120-130 grams, then there is nothing to worry about.

5. Noisy breathing and grunting spout
Many mothers believe that if the baby sometimes coughs and spouts a nose, then her first thought is: "The child is sick." Do not raise a premature panic if the child has a cold, then the nozzles flow from the nozzle, and if he just grunts, then he just needs to clean it. If the spout is clean, then both wheezing and grunting will be lost.

6. The child is trembling
The baby can tremble limbs and even the chin. Do not be scared and immediately panic, because this happens to many children and up to three months is quite normal, because the nervous system is only being formed. It is necessary to address to the doctor, only if after three-monthly age it has not passed or has not taken place.

7. Night experiences
Many mothers get up several times in one night to listen to the breath of their child. Very often you are afraid to fall asleep at the moment when you are breastfeeding, because the baby can be drowned. All this leads to the fact that you are constantly tensed like a string. Here the main thing is to relax, the maternal instinct is laid in us by nature. The matter is that because of differences in a hormonal background you constantly feel attacks of alarm. You definitely need to relax.

Another thousand reasons can cause a lot of fears in my mother. The best solution to the problem is to allow yourself to relax and not panic in vain, because your excitement is transmitted to the baby. Remember, steadiness, endurance and calmness are very important now. Try to get maximum positive emotions from motherhood.