If you caught the eye for the title of the article and detained your attention on it, it means that your husband's love was softly tiptoed or tiptoed confidently and with pressure. This sticky feeling fills every cell of consciousness and generates suspicions, complexes and uncertainty. Did he stop loving? Or was it imagined by fear of losing it? What signs in the behavior of her husband say exactly about his dislike?
- The husband moves away. He is near, but he seems to be gone. More and more spouses are absorbed in their thoughts, listens absentmindedly, does not respond and does not talk about their problems and experiences, which they could only share with you. The husband is not interested in everyday problems and it is easier for you to do the work yourself than to ask for it and receive a refusal or favor. Your communication is increasingly reduced to quarrels, and the husband began to avoid any conversations and joint pastimes. You are increasingly catching yourself thinking that your life under one roof resembles an uncomfortable neighborhood with a completely different person.
- The husband is always in a bad mood. He is annoyed at any little thing said or done by you, and emotion is no longer shy to express by shouting, insults and pretensions. And the husband does not choose the words. He no longer spares your feelings, because he believes that you do not deserve respect. You began to cry often, which makes him even more angry. A day without scandal, you accept for a truce and try to please your husband in every way, but the more you try, the more he finds reasons to be dissatisfied with you. Unreasonable nagging, which is repeated with an enviable regularity, makes you nervous, awkward, and you yourself begin to feel that the husband is right.
- The husband has ceased to care. Lack of care and attention indicates indifference. The husband is no longer interested in your problems, does not call to warn that he will be late, do not prepare traditional coffee in the mornings, without which you never leave home. He does not care that rheumatism has worsened, there are no winter boots, and he forgot about your birthday. He always has strong assurances and strong arguments. Your same timid remarks the spouse misses the ears. You feel that he ignores you, because he does not want to admit his wrong. And he also does not hurry to apologize. He does not care what you feel. He does not feel anything to you.
- The husband seeks freedom. He constantly lingers at work, often began to travel on business trips and go to work on the weekend. If you can not hide behind the work, then he has other reasons to be absent at home: help a friend, mother, homeless dogs or starving children in Africa. The husband is no longer interested in your family gatherings with relatives, visiting friends, taking a joint vacation or traveling. And then the spouse explains his employment by work, illness or bad mood, becoming more and more inventive in his excuses. But if you manage to get it at your disposal, then soon you begin to bitterly regret it. The husband does everything possible so that you no longer have a desire to spend time with him.
- Husband avoids sex and affection. He is irritated by expressions of tenderness on your part, although he did not fall asleep without a kiss for the night before, did not go to work without hugs and could not do without other manifestations of tactile love. Now even sex has been reduced to a duty, and then he executes it either on your insistent initiative, or does it "for a tick", so that it can not be reproached for refusing sex. A woman always feels this difference between making love and having sex, even if it is technically perfect. When sex disappears from the life of young and healthy spouses, it shows that love has gone much earlier.
- My husband had secrets. He does not part with his phone, set passwords on social networks, discards calls or goes to talk to another room. Your questions about such a conspiracy answer evasively or even rudely. And perhaps its secrecy manifests itself and not so clearly, but you still can not help thinking that he had secrets from you that had not existed before. Of course, you can at first be amused by the illusions that the spouse is preparing a surprise or does not want to be disturbed by bad news, but if his mystery increases, and you are troubled by other signs pointing to his dislike, then it's time to declassify your husband and dot everything over «I».
- The husband blames for his failures and shifts responsibility. Solving family problems in an incomprehensible way completely migrated to your shoulders. You run around with a sick child on doctors, negotiate with a plumber to clean the sewer, help your mother-in-law with repairs, and your husband - with a report. The spouse has long ceased to worry about family worries, and if something disturbs him, then this is the question, why did not you postpone everything for the sake of his report? Attempts to return him his male responsibilities together with the report cause him indignation and accusation of heartlessness, irresponsibility and indifference to his problems. He openly manipulates, and in case of failure, he will blame himself not for inactivity, but for you for not having coped with his work.
- The husband neglects financial obligations. From time immemorial, the financing of the family was on the husband or was distributed equally. Now this responsibility has mostly become yours. The husband stopped worrying about the rent, school expenses for the child, money for food and other home purchases. You know for sure that he earns well, he does not have financial problems, as there is no desire to support the family with money. He does not want to listen to your complaints and questions about where his earnings go. It somehow suddenly became his personal business. Of course, here again you should not exclude a serious purchase for you as a gift. But if the question of money is discussed in a rude form and you are not given rest and other signs of his dislike, then, most likely, this is another reason that he became indifferent to you.