May, June, July, August - heat, it's time for tops and swimsuits, shorts and miniskirts. And how you want to wear a light dress and run out into the street. Pulling on this dress, you begin to look at yourself in the mirror. And what do you see? The belly loosened, the sides popped out, the priest completely lost its look, the chest is small ... or maybe it all just seems to you ??? Perhaps you are too critical of yourself and your figure? It's all about the complexes. The most rasprastranennye women's complexes when dealing with men are women's appearance, and especially with the advent of summer. Any complex is considered an inferiority complex. So an inferiority complex - a brake or a perpetual motion machine ???? An eternal brake before dating men or a perpetual motion that would idealize yourself?
Having seen the advertisement of flakes Fitnes, I thought about the complexes and their origin. The girl on the ad, spinning in front of a mirror in an indoor swimsuit, covered her perfect tummy with her beach bag, and with a hat, so that no one would notice her type of imperfect figure, and especially men. And I thought, if a person has any complexes, so that he does not, in this case, lost weight, he still does not get rid of them.
With the complexes you need to fight in the psychological level. Fourteen days later, the same girl with the same figure was spinning around the pool in a mini bikini, and a handsome man was watching her. And again I thought, and those girls wearing bikinis, whose stomach is bigger by volume than their breasts, and they have complexes? Lying on the beach, I watched such girls, and I would say that they quite confidently flaunt the beach with their far from ideal figure. These are people who do not have complexes because of their shape and not ideal forms. The abdomen hangs because she gave birth to three children and raised them worthy people, and she, with her belly bulging, walks proudly saying, "Look, I gave birth to three, but can you?" Or a woman has a big ass, but she also does not complex about it, because she is a successful woman who drives Lexus and at work everyone prays to her.
Success is what destroys complexes, and to be successful, you need to be brave, and do not be afraid of what people think about you, because we are all not perfect. And even the models are not perfect. You look at them, they have dots everywhere, that you can even count the edges. Is this sexy? And anyway, who came up with the ideal? And who said that the ideal figure should be 90-60-90 ??? Every woman has her own ideal, which does not exist. Who knows the ideal person who would be considered ideal for everyone on earth? Personally, I do not know such ideals.
To get rid of complexes, first of all, we must admit that other people also have some of their complexes and shortcomings. What would get rid of complexes related to appearance, stand in front of the mirror and look at your body, such as the stomach, try to see in it not fat, but cubes. If you have complexes, then you still try to get rid of it, swinging in the gym or running in the morning, or sitting on different diets. In any way, you are in great shape, only you are too self-critical. Try to convince yourself, for example, put on something tight and try to walk along the street, I think all men will be delighted to turn around in the footsteps to you.
Hang your photos around the apartment, seeing yourself every day on the walls you will feel that you are not so bad, and the people who will come to visit you when they see your photos will also start to see you beautiful, because you ventured to hang your own photo by house. So, you are confident in yourself and you do not have complexes, and this will bring your visitors to delight, because they feel that you are confident in yourself, and self-confidence has always made a strong impression on people. If you have hung out your portraits around the house, then you are proud of yourself and your body, which means that you are confident, if you are confident, then you are successful! Do not be afraid that people will think about you, because all people are afraid that you will think about them. Be bold, and love yourself for who you are, and others will admire you.
Know if God created you for what you are, then you are beautiful, and if you have any flaw, then there is a good trait in you that compensates for your shortcoming. I have one friend, she has a very small chest, well, but what if she has that kind of rocking! And she because of this always says, "So what, that I have a small chest, but my ass will erase the nose of any breast." Or another example, I have straight hair, and many of my acquaintances, who have wavy or curly hair, have told me many times that they dream of hair like mine. And I, in the quiet, sometimes think of doing chic or carving, but I do not tell anyone that I want curly hair. I love my hair and their frankness, but sometimes I want changes, and that's why I often change my hair color. Very often, we want what the other has, not appreciating what we have ourselves. Believe me, someone wants the same nails, or the same hair, or the same breast size, or a tummy like you.
So, dear girls, women, find in yourself something that is ideal for you in your appearance and be proud of it, because many people envy you !. Maybe it's big eyes, or long eyelashes, or maybe a flat belly, or long legs. In each there is a piece of beauty that makes you beautiful. Remember that there are no ugly women, there are beautiful women, whatever we were, we are beautiful.