You suspect that a man is cheating on you, see the signs of male betrayal. Together or separately, these signs of betrayal can be an indication that your man, with whom you live together or meet for at least a year, has a permanent novel on the side.
1. Your man without any apparent reason suddenly changed his attitude to his appearance :
- you have killed once a lot of time to accustom him to the daily soul, and now he gets there himself in the morning and in the evening, especially in the evening when he is about to go "to drink beer in a purely male company";
- he had an irresistible desire to update the wardrobe or change his style of clothing, and on his shelf in the bathroom there was a new ultra fashionable cologne, bought without taking into account your opinion;
- he suddenly began to go to the gym, rejoicing every kilogram dropped from the abdomen and the relief of the pumped muscles.
2. He changed his attitude to you.
"He used to be jealous of you for every lamppost and went crazy if you stayed at work / school for at least five minutes, and now he does not care how much you come home and who you spend time with. Or vice versa, your always adequate and respecting your right to personal freedom, a man suddenly became an aggressive jealous person, arranging serious hysterics and scenes of jealousy without any reason on your part.
- Previously, he liked everything in you, starting with the manner of dressing, ending with your culinary skills, now from him to infinity one can hear only cavils - and you have a potato burned, and you have bought a stupid blouse, and in general, do not paint you a different color ? Or vice versa, your always strict and critical-minded man suddenly began to pour on you endless streams of tenderness and to fill you with no reason gifts and flowers that you once saw strictly three times a year - for your birthday, March 8 and your anniversary.
3. He began to spend a lot of time at work - endless meetings, negotiations, and hands-on, and calling him at these moments is absolutely unrealistic - at best you'll hear a sharp "I'm busy", at worst - "the subscriber's device is turned off or out of the zone network actions ". His work suddenly became associated with endless business trips to another city. Or, if his work has always been connected with business trips, they suddenly became twice as big and he is always unlucky with tickets - he used to always come back in the evening, and now the tickets for evening flights, apparently, disappeared from the sale, and he returns Only in the morning, after spending an extra night on another business trip.
4. He had a colleague from work / a bosom friend who calls him at any time of the day or night, which he brings from work / school, with which he drinks coffee / beer in the evenings, but with which he says "clean" friendly "or" purely business "relations. Of course, you did not see her in the eyes, and he does not intend to introduce you.
5. He stopped taking you with him to those hangouts , where you always traditionally appeared together - the company of his best friends, corporate parties in his firm. If you try to discuss this situation with one of the regular girls of his friends, they try to translate the conversation into another topic.
6. The mobile phone is always with you . Previously, he calmly left his cell phone in a conspicuous place and quietly answered you with any phone calls, now he is inseparable from his pipe, endless incomprehensible sms fall, and he talks to the mobile away from you - for example, in the next room. With the phone, he is now inseparable even in the toilet.
7. He suddenly got carried away by computer and virtual communication , on those rare evenings when he spends his home, you see only his head. E-mails, ICQ, chat rooms, forums - they use the full range of virtual communication to their fullest. Any attempt to peer through the screen through his shoulder is severely suppressed. And your attempt to turn on the computer in its absence ends with a complete failure - absolutely everything is protected.
8. Changes in sex . Sex has become rare and extremely monotonous. Or maybe your man just changed the style of behavior in bed to the opposite - from the experimenter turned into a boring bore, stopping any of your initiative in bed, or from the inveterate traditionalist suddenly became a supporter of diversity, turning you into those postures that were never used before by you .
9. Financial expenses . By the state of the joint budget, you noticed that your man began to spend much more money than usual, and you absolutely do not understand what exactly. This is especially noticeable in those periods that are traditionally associated with gifts - a new year, the eighth of March.
10. His car . In his car there are always some forgotten things, the position of the front passenger seat is clearly not yours, and the kilometrage, wounded, judging by the meter, your man in the last week, would be enough to go to the neighboring friendly republic, although according to the official version all this week, he stayed in the office without a break.
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