For most women, cheating a man is something unacceptable and unthinkable, something on the brink of fantasy that will never happen to them. We can not understand why a man is, is untrue to his wife. We think, if they said: "I love" or ringed it, then it is with us forever, but as practice shows, nothing eternal is gone. We think that he is always sincere with us, we think that he is no longer needed with us and him, he will exchange us for friends, he will be the main one in the family. But this is not so. Sometimes it happens that men disappoint us, earn less, constantly whine as hard for them at work and, in the end, change us. We are strong women, despite the fact that we are a weak sex, we can endure and endure much, but not treason. If a man constantly changes his wife - this is a bad sign, it is necessary to understand it, to find out the reason why everything happens in this way.
The problem of relations between a man and a woman lies, first of all, in the worldview, in its differences. We look at the world, the things around us in different ways, and therefore we can not understand why a man did so, and not otherwise. These differences between us are borne out both in the psychology of the sexes and in the physiology of perception of what is happening.
Us, women, from the very childhood were taught that intimacy should be only with the only one, only with someone who means something to us. For men, intimacy is nothing more than just sex, excellent emotional relaxation or one of the ways to win the heart of a woman. And why not, after all, having been with him once in the vicinity, we are ready to surrender to him forever. Purely from psychology in his youth, the first sex for men means a sign of courage, their growing up, the appearance of experience, they are trying to prove that they are better than other men. On the average age of sex they try to show that they still have something and can mean, are they still attractive, charming and can have any woman. In any case, they always remain children in their positions and outlook.
A man, like a woman, flaunts attention, especially if a man is ringed, then excessive interest from the female half will increase his self-esteem. Men are polygamous and nothing can be done about it, except that they just have to accept it. Like any man, men are drawn to feats, everyone wants to taste the forbidden fruit. Therefore, men go on treason. Perhaps, if we still allowed them to change us openly, then this process would acquire some definite regularity. How to behave and what to do if a man constantly cheats on his wife?
Do not underestimate the men and think that they are not aware of the potential risk, the risk of being caught on the hot, the risk of being exposed to treason. But still it does not stop them.
Some men think of treason and change only because they never had it and want to try something new. To some extent, this can be a plus in your relationship, a man takes risks, you assess this risk, do not punish him, but do not give a descent for what he did.
There is also another option, if a woman is not pleased with the fact of betrayal, it is clear to whom he will be pleasant, the woman leaves from the man, she throws it, because she can not accept. Can not accept the betrayal and hurt her. If a man's wife is expensive, then he will settle down, will adequately realize his mistake, try to stop his beloved and correct himself. There are a lot of such cases, because men also feel that we do not think about them. At such a time a man is vulnerable, it is easy to teach, that is, to teach a lesson about how not to behave yourself and what not to do. After all, the result can be deplorable and inevitable. The man will agree to any conditions, just to return and retain his wife. It will go for any of your requirements. And now you can, as a strict parent, point out mistakes and put your conditions. Having felt the punishment for his act, the man realizes everything and understands that this should not be done, because for all the deed there is a reckoning and not every repayment of the soul can be.
Just think: why can there be treason? After all, a man will not just change his wife, and even more so all the time. No exception is that the reason is in you. Treason is an imbalance introduced into the harmony of the existence of a married couple. If there is no harmony in the family, a destroyer appears in it - treason. The reasons that lead a man to step to change, can be covered both in the psychological aspect, and in the sexual. In psychological terms, for example, there is a lot of pressure on him at home. As from the options you constantly reproach him that he does not carry out errands for the au pair, does not take out the garbage, does not take away his things thrown to the floor after a hard day of work, perhaps you press him on the fact that he does not earn enough, or, for example, you earn more than him. In the sexual aspect, perhaps a man simply does not get the norm of his needs that he needs. If this is so, then it is clear that he will look for joy on the side.
Never hold men tantrums, do not freak out, do not put any ultimatums. The very fact of irritation in the family hearth leads the man out of balance and leads him to the idea that somewhere better, someone will not be eating it pretty much every day, but will simply appreciate for being near.
The question of treason always attracts the question "What should I do? How to proceed?". Here you yourself must figure out whether you can reconcile with one-time betrayal, survive it and go on, further trust your husband, or you will constantly reproach him with this. If you can accept it - it's good, you are a strong woman, such a husband will never give up for the sake of carnal pleasures. If you do not humble yourself, leave it, there are still a lot of those who will appreciate you ahead of you. Whatever it was, soberly assess the situation and make the right conclusion.