Every woman always wants to be desirable, each confident that she has the right to personal happiness, active and diverse personal life. And even marriage is not a valid reason, which should deprive all of the above. But, among other things, women, especially married women, have some obligations. After all, go to scatter to the side - this is one thing, and the family is different, it is holy and immutable, and otherwise it should not be started. However, if for some reason you are forced to change, you need to take care of the methods of conspiracy, which will ensure that the husband does not learn about your connections on the side.
Create the appearance of a storm activity
In many families it is accepted that the husband and wife know where, with whom and why each of them is located at one time or another. Everyone knows who how much comes from work, what road it returns from and where it can go. Such awareness brings with it certain difficulties, because Any deviation from a given course can not remain unnoticed. If it came to treason, you need to prepare ways to retreat, in order to protect their close from not pleasant, and not necessary to them information.
So, to begin with, women need to gradually begin to expand the number of places in which it can be at very different times of the day and day. At the same time, it's completely useless to give out strategic information about the location of your favorite gym, personal psychologist, beauty salon, etc. It's also better to refrain from the names of your own stylists and coaches, at the end of the end, there must be a mystery in a woman! And it is not necessary for the husband to know, wherever, with the help of whom and what his pious maintains his beauty, harmony and composure, it is enough that he is aware of the fact that somewhere all these actions take place.
It also makes sense to "do" something spiritual and calming, for example, courses of ceramics, psycho-training and that kind of activity are perfect. The main thing is that all these "activities" take place at a time when the husband can not meet or conduct his own.
Do not leave traces
In the modern world, it is difficult to imagine the absence of communication through social networks, icq and other computer means of communication. All this has become so commonplace and easily accessible that most people can leave the computer, forgetting to close the correspondence, or even without considering it necessary to do it, and start doing other things. In this situation, such negligence is not permissible! It is necessary to hide and erase all correspondence, and at the same time the history of messages, so as not to tempt fate! And even more so you can not leave your passwords and nicknames in an ugly place!
It also makes sense to get a girlfriend who has the talent to attract all sorts of troubles to her, and find various difficulties, which one must periodically help her cope with. In this case, the girlfriend should not be the fruit of imagination, it really should be available, you need to present something to your husband if that.
Also, it is not superfluous to think over various reasons that can be unexpectedly delayed. And it should not be something that is clearly squeezed out of a finger, such as a cork, it is better to find something more believable, for example, build up nails or eyelashes, which at any convenient moment can suddenly require correction. You do not have to lie, you need to artificially create possible causes.
Prepare an alibi
The main thing is that the alibi should not be too thoughtful, and inaccurately to be too smart. In the end, who keeps track of their movement throughout the day, every minute checking with the clock ?! Let the explanation be not clearly rehearsed, but more authentic. As evidence, if it is necessary to be presented, it is better to stock up with various trifles in the form of an advertising booklet, or a business card of a new store, or discount coupons for the next purchase, etc.
In the situation in question, the rule also works well that the best defense is an attack. Let the husband know that you watch him! It is necessary from time to time to call him, asking where he is and with whom, to start questioning him on the subject, "Why did not you answer the phone for five minutes!", Etc. You do not need to show disrespect to your husband, because you do not care where he is and with whom, let him feel it!
Our phone is
In no case need to write down your lover's number under all sorts of sugary nicknames like "Bunny" or "MUSIC", generally remember the lover's number under whatever name in the phone it is unsafe, where the guarantee that the husband somehow will not answer for you until you , for example, in the bathroom. Better write it in the form of a non-talking encryption on your daily schedule, it is unlikely that the husband will ring up all the numbers specified in it.