And the men became too self-sufficient and self-confident. As a result, the contact is not the first to go.
Of course, many women may object, saying that they are still acquainted first, only methods have changed and thanks to modern technologies, forums, skype, blogs, ICQ and other social networks have appeared, which, so to say, "unite hearts." In this case, it is worth considering and counting how many times you were deceived in these social networks. You think that you met a handsome guy, and a guy comes to the meeting, well, not at all like the photo he sent you. Also, a huge drawback with this familiarity is the difference in the behavior of the partner in the real and virtual world. Imagine a situation, in ICQ or contact, he falls asleep to you with pleasant verbal constructions, and generally behaves like a real macho, and when you meet - you see yourself in front of yourself, an insecure, self-contained kid who can not say two words. And after such cases you think hard, before you add to your friends some beautiful seducer. What is left for the girls to do, because you do not want to be alone at all, as well as being "with anyone." "Is it worth it for a girl to get acquainted first? "- this question every day more and more worried about the fair sex. It turns out, it's worth it. In order to convince you of this, we propose a classification of the guys who get acquainted first, but it's unlikely that she will please you. Then we offer a description of the guys with whom it is worth getting acquainted first. Although everything depends on tastes and preferences ...
So, the first to contact are men "from Ryan", communication with which will not give you much pleasure. For them it is peculiar to invite to ... a shop near the entrance to treat you with seeds or shawarma, plus beer, without fail. To come off in dance with them you can right near the entrance, to the music from your mobile phone. About sex do not want to talk at all, but that you were aware of: it can happen anywhere, even on the same bench. And not only because you both could not resist the desire, the problem is that for him this is the standard, because in order to invite you somewhere, you need to spend money. He thinks that "this" is not worth it. Also this kind of grooms is extremely jealous and the phrase "so that at the weekend of the house there are no friends of a masculine gender" for them is key. And it happens because they are not confident in themselves and understand that someone else can give you much more.
The second category of guys who get to know first are pickups. They spend a lot of time studying women's psychology in order to become a seducer of the highest class. Pikapery apply on women the learned plans of action, techniques NLP, in order to quickly tighten them into bed, and then evaporate. And if you have managed to get acquainted with this, then who he really is, you can find out if he actively uses gestures and facial expressions, builds your communication on the principle of "three" yes, and, most importantly, fulfills any whim and breathes in Unison with you. These are all the principles of a pickup, unlike a normal, adequate guy, he will not perceive information about you as interesting and important, by and large he does not need him, but he will pretend that you are interested in him as a person. You can unmask it with frank conversations, say that you are an orphan or deadly sick, after such a guy will lose the desire to mock you, "since life has already mocked," he will think.
In the end, the pick-up can be quite a good guy, but just do not think that he can change. Thanks to the courses and practice that he passed, the guy became something like a service dog, which in any situation fulfills its duty. Do not think that you are lucky, and you will be an exception.
The next type is the "golden youth", which seeks hot sensations and impressions. Do not prematurely rejoice, they do not go on about their girls. So do not wait for luxurious gifts or material support. For them, you're just a girl for one night, and if you're lucky, then for a week. Then you will be disappointed.
We examined the main categories of men who are first to get acquainted. There are many subspecies, among them there are, of course, good options, but in most cases, it's either too mysterious, growing up Chikatily, or ...
The remaining guys are slow to get acquainted with the girls either because of the work they devote to life and believe that success in their careers is success in their personal lives; either they are too well educated and modest, while they themselves suffer from their shyness; or they are insecure, self-contained guys who, in fact, already on the second date will turn into a sociable and cheerful guy, it takes time.
Do not be afraid of the fact that these guys do not get acquainted first, you see yourself that they do it for a number of reasons that do not concern you at all. And if you start to think about the fact that guys still have to take the first steps, then you are waiting for any man from the classification above. The choice is yours.
Decide what you need and start looking. After all, it's no secret that a normal guy still needs to be looked for, and finding - to get acquainted first. This, of course, will not be so simple, but, as everyone knows, there is a "hook" for every man, this is not including women's men, they are ready to "help" without a hook, having seen only a fishing rod.
Most normal men simply can not refuse a woman who needs help. Therefore, you should take advantage of this. For example, your heel has broken, and you still have heavy bags. Well, how can a decent man refuse to bring home a girl who was in trouble? !!
The main thing in such cases is to start acting, and not to be ashamed of the principle "I take the initiative into my own hands - get acquainted first! "