Late Marriages

An amicable solution to emerging issues, trust in each other, family idyll, friendly relations - all couples want this kind of relationship to prevail in their lives. This article is devoted to all the pluses and minuses of late marriages, since not all representatives of society respond positively about such marriages. With the phrase "late marriage," each of us has its own numerical meanings in the head, it seems to someone that at 37 years old it's too late to marry, and someone, on the contrary, believes that in 43 years it's absolutely not too late to start a family. That's why, we will not form an age limit, discussing this topic, but we simply speculate about the positive and negative aspects of such a marriage.


Positive moments

Both women and men who have crossed the 30-year mark are usually aware of what type of person they would like to see as a living quarters. And making their choice among many people, they count on the fact that the future family will be stable and strong, without any unpleasant surprises waiting for them in the future.

Stable material opportunities. For comparison, let's take a couple who bound themselves by marriage at the age of twenty. In this model, the family often faces financial problems, because young spouses will only be able to build their career. And of course, without the help of the parents to be uncommitted, if it comes to any major purchases, such as the rented car. But as for people who have got married after thirty years, then as a rule, questions have been settled with their own housing and they have already realized themselves in labor activity. Taking into account these important facts, we can say that having realized themselves in their careers and having achieved success, the spouses will pay more attention to the family and take with gratitude all the wonderful moments in their joint life.

Harmonized education of children. Planning, a true desire and willingness to have children help parents to carefully prepare for the birth of a child, and life experience and maturity allows him to be treated with understanding, and also adequately and properly educate him.

Solving family issues with wisdom. Maturity and experience of the spouses make it possible not to make quick-tempered and rash acts that would contribute to the emergence of disputes and disagreements. However, indisputably, it does not mean that after marrying at the age of forty, people will not automatically be violated. Nevertheless, in such a marriage there will be less reproaches, more respect, a greater desire to find a middle ground and more likely to end the conflict.

Negative aspects of late marriages

Mentioning about the positive aspects, also do not follow the disadvantages that may occur in late marriages.

Biological clock and the birth of children. Often matrimonial, being in a late marriage, very much wants to get a baby, but unfortunately, there are problems with health, which in turn inhibits the process of conception and vynashashivaniya crumbs. Whatever one may say, it has long been known that the most ideal age for the birth of a baby is the period from 20 to 30 years, when the human organism is not particularly concerned about various diseases. Consequently, as a wife, yet a husband, undergo not the best feelings when they can not fulfill their long-standing duty - to conceive a small crumb.

Another disadvantage of late marriage is age-related habits. After all, each of the spouses, prior to legitimizing their relations, has become accustomed to the definite foundation in life, to do what and when he wants without any restrictions and reports to someone for his behavior. That's it on the phone and there can be some difficulties, until the family has passed the lapping stage.