How can you not fall in love with a man holding a leadership position? And if he is also witty, handsome and secure? That's why lovers in their women's bosses are becoming more and more every day. However, very few people know what problems and troubles can end even the shortest novel.
Women often see only good things. In love with his boss, women are always seen examples of happy relationships that end with the wedding. However, the reality here is still quite disappointing.
Most often, for a novel with a boss there are two options for the development of events. The first most common option: you recently came to a new job and your boss is interested in you. The second option: you have been working for a long time in a company, however, on a corporate or informal meeting, you suddenly thought that the boss looks at you in a special way. Often this turns out to be true, rapprochement with colleagues helps to increase interest. And so, the woman herself does not notice how she hurries to work. Weekends no longer bring that satisfaction that before. Dress code and office dresses are becoming more frank, and when you see the leader, you begin to be embarrassed.
There is no smoke without fire. Mutual attraction is felt by both men and women, so it's stupid to believe that the boss does not notice how you treat him. In these cases, women are even more likely to show their interest in increased working capacity. Now she agrees to stay late at work or arrive early, if only the boss paid attention.
As a rule, in this case a woman does not stand up and shares her feelings with a friend or a colleague at work. Pink women's glasses stay pretty long. Many believe that the boss is the best that the novel will be real or that the colleagues pay attention.
It is worthwhile warning all women - a romance with a boss can be dangerous. Dangerous for both reputation and career. Unfortunately, statistics show that the bosses with the boss do not end with anything good, in most cases.
The self-stress consequences of attitudes at work:
- The danger of finding out about your romance is the top management. Your boss can simply punish the loss of a prize or a transfer to another department, which is extremely unpleasant. In rare, especially heavy cases, for a novel boss with a subordinate can even fire.
- As a rule, loving a successful man is much easier. Therefore, on your way for sure there will be a couple of lovers in the head of the girls who also want a relationship. If one of them finds out about your attitude to the boss, they can not only emit your career, but also your personal life. In addition, from rumors and gossip, you can not get rid of.
- In the event that your sympathy is mutual, then colleagues will gossip. And the more you spend spending time together, the more problems you will have with your relationship. Rumors, gossip will become an integral part of your relationship, and, therefore, there will be much more reason to quarrel. If you quarrel or quarrel, colleagues will notice this and will themselves come up with the cause of your conflict.
- He does not perceive you as his girlfriend. Often men who occupy a high post do not know how to behave differently at home. If at work you wear a coffee, then at home you will look after him completely. This is a common option, when the boss can not remove the mask of the big boss at home and commands the commander. As a rule, even if the girl was the initiator of the relationship, she herself tears and tears. Constantly feel in the second place is impossible.
- The rarest option, when you decided to use the boss to achieve your career goals. Here, women themselves use their charm and use all available ways of seduction. I must say, very, very successfully. If the duration of your dream is worth it, then make the choice yourself: seduce the boss or achieve everything. However, it is worth remembering that you may over time post a higher position and have to seduce another colleague.
- If your relationship has started, aspustya for a while has ended, it is likely that you will not be able to work together again. Some of you will have to leave your job, it's unlikely that this will be your boss, who will not leave a lukewarm place. And if you also propose that he wants you to mstizza failed relationship ...
If, nevertheless, your sympathy is mutual, and you are sure that you are ready to go to the end, then initially hide your relations thoroughly. Try not to mix your work and your love. If your work experience is not big enough, then you can search in parallel for a new job. As an option, ask for a transfer to another department.
Tell your colleagues to the novel only at the stage when you decide to live together. Ridkimzhenshchinam lucky, at work all colleagues are nice people, and the atmosphere is friendly and truly family. In such a collective they become friends, and your novel will be accepted with a bang. Joint corporate parties, office events and workdays are fixed by a holiday.
The general output: the novel with the director should be started only in case of mutual sympathy and until the last time to hide it from colleagues.