What is revenge?
The feeling of revenge is often compared to a disease, since it is a destructive feeling capable of grabbing the human mind so much that it turns a person into a slave who is only thinking about how to realize his sinister plan of revenge.
Revenge makes a person experience the most negative and unpleasant emotions that he can only imagine. The sense of revenge is peculiar to different people and all these people unites the painful and overly inflated ego, as well as the inability to tolerate other people's shortcomings and also the lack of ability to forgive a person. There are, of course, exceptions, and even the most good-natured and peace-loving person can be brought to vindictiveness.
But revenge is not only destructive. In history there have been cases that, because of a sense of revenge, have become famous and successful people.
Reasons for the emergence of a sense of revenge can be a very large number. This betrayal, ridicule, treason, resentment and much more. But there are some people who begin to take revenge on a person for no apparent reason. Most often, the sense of revenge pursues lonely and dissatisfied people, since by implementing their plan of revenge, they try to show the whole world their significance.
Also, envy can become the cause of the occurrence and then it becomes very difficult to cope with these emotions, because the object of envy can change, and you will also remain on the same level.
The most common cause is jealousy. Vengeance makes a person who is constantly jealous of doing various things that can harm a large number of innocent people.
Is it worth taking revenge on the offenders?
Only each person can decide for himself whether to take revenge on the offenders or not. And in order to try to answer yourself to this question, think about whether this grievance is really so great that you spent so much energy and energy on this person? And yet you need to understand whether you will receive satisfaction from your revenge or vice versa, will you become even more suffering from this? And can you make your offender take revenge on you to make him repent?
If you do not deceive yourself all weigh, then in most cases you will have the answer "not worth it".
In order to solve any problems with the abusers, there are many ways, which are basically much more effective than revenge. Sometimes the usual ignoring of a person or a simple conversation with him can correct the situation and save you from the desire to take revenge on the offender.
If you have already decided to take revenge, then you need to think about how to do it? Be cautious and do not take revenge on the offender beyond what he has done to you. Making up a plan for revenge, do not forget about the legislation, since many people simply simply overdo the stick and thereby get new problems. And as they say with the law it is better to be friends!
And most importantly, try to think more before planning your revenge, because you can hurt yourself by your actions.