Many mothers on reaching a child of three years of age are wondering whether to give the child to a kindergarten. Of course, some do not have a choice. After all, not everyone has non-working grandmothers who can help, looking after their grandchildren. But what about the one to whom different options are available? Should I give the child to a kindergarten, to leave a house with my grandmother, and maybe hire a nanny?
The main advantage of visiting a kindergarten is socialization. It is here that the child gets used to the society, learns to interact with others. Communicating with other children, kids get used to responsibility. Important in the life of each child and the regime, the correct alternation of work and rest. At home, it's not easy to organize. In addition, as for the grandmothers, we all know that they always pamper their beloved grandchildren, so they can hardly be strict about the daily routine of the child. Nurse, of course, will cope with this better. She can and do with the baby, prepare him for school. But the child still does not get enough communication.Many parents feel sorry for their children. It seems to them that the child feels alone in the kindergarten, abandoned. To some extent, this is true. Every person, especially a small one, should get used to the new situation. It is possible that the first time the child will not be easy. But over time, the baby adapts and becomes more independent and self-confident.
Another disadvantage of visiting a kindergarten is that, being in a large cluster of people, the child will often get sick. Of course, such a risk exists. Nobody is immune to disease. But on the other hand, we all know that some diseases are easier to tolerate at a younger age. No wonder they are called "children's". Perhaps this is not for everyone to be a consolation. After all, everyone is afraid of health problems in the child. But after all, frequent illnesses in the kindergarten are not a natural phenomenon. It all depends on the immunity of the child. Many children get sick and are at home, and someone in the kindergarten manages not to catch even chickenpox, which, as you know, is transmitted quite easily and quickly.
Apparently, a visit to a kindergarten can affect a child both negatively and positively. Therefore, this issue must be taken very seriously. First of all, you need to individually approach each child. It all depends on the nature. For someone, perhaps visiting a kindergarten will be very difficult psychologically, someone will help. It is not necessary to give the child to a kindergarten very early. And some children prefer to stay at home until the age of four, if the parents have such an opportunity.
It is also very important to prepare the child for the kindergarten physically, and not only psychologically. It is necessary to strengthen the immunity of children, temper them, to support the body with vitamins and microelements. And then "sadikovskie" illnesses to the kid will not be terrible.
Of course, the choice of the educator also needs to be approached with the mind. Look closely at how he treats children. Remember that a good teacher should treat everyone individually, as an individual, even a small one. Take an interest in the program of education in the kindergarten. It will be better if innovative methods are welcomed in the kindergarten. Learning, especially a child, is always easier and more interesting in a playful form.
Summing up, we can say that visiting a kindergarten is useful for many children. However, you need to remember that this should be a good kindergarten. And this is not necessarily a commercial institution. There is an opinion that it is expensive to pay for good. Not always. Good teachers work in ordinary kindergartens. The main thing is to carefully treat your child and make the right choice.