How to prevent children's teasers ?
Many school problems can be solved even before the beginning of schooling. In collective activity, children usually look at everything from the position of comparing oneself with others. It is worthwhile to look at what causes the attention of children, and to think about what exactly your child may have problems with.
Weakness - a four-eyed ... It is not necessary to adjust the child in advance to the fact that it can be worked at school. It is worth taking care that the glasses of the child were beautiful, and that he was comfortable with them.
Excess weight, or vice versa - fat, dystrophic, etc. Here it is necessary to take very seriously the physical activity of the child and, of course, to his nutrition. If there is a tendency to fullness, get rid of the habit of stuffing your child with delicate things, always proceed from the calorie content of the food. Do not try to reassure him with chocolates. And if the child knows that he is plump, the chocolate trick in the future will not be successful.
As for academic achievement, then there are such names in the course, as, for example, crammed, clever, stupid and other words-synonyms. Make an effort to ensure that the child behaves correctly in such situations. If he does it all - do not have to be a high-ranking or upstart. And if you do not get everything, do not stop working on yourself, give more time to study, do not be shy and ask the council, strive to be no worse than others, but better.
If the problems in the school concern growth, then in the course are such epithets as the calancha or the idoliput. And this list can be listed endlessly. Just take a note that the child should always pick up comfortable and proper clothes and shoes, watch his posture. Having low growth, the child stoops, when he wears big shoes, thus looking caricatured. A girl, if she is tall and has high-heeled shoes ... Keep an eye on what your child is wearing.
Keep the child's behavior under control. In the event that your child is constantly getting into a grudge, then the probability of wearing the nickname of a fighter, an asshole or a madman is provided to him. And not only will there be a problem in the cries, you yourself understand. And if the child tries to be inconspicuous and prefers to sit out for the last party, while not communicating with peers, then he will probably be given takioklichki as a quiet or something like that. So educate your child so that he does not have complexes in communication, so that he is relaxed and sociable. This should be done far before he goes to school.
First and last name. It is important here that parents have taught the child from childhood to be presented correctly - not Edik, but Edward. If he is Edik at school, his sonorous nickname is secured to him. There are such names as, for example, Evrika, Zhuzha or Russia. So, before you give a child a similar name, think about the fact that he will soon have to go to school. And there, familiarizing with the children, he will have a lot of problems connected with his name. When choosing a name, be a little more prudent.
Crooked, hair color, etc. Well, what can you do ... You can do a lot of non-interference in the conflict between the children. Empathy is the main thing that you can do in a given case. Try to understand that all the thoughts of the child are affected by this problem. Let him know that you understand his experiences and feel him - it will be easier for him and he will relax, will not hide the problem inside. Think, what it is possible to undertake, that the child felt importance and necessity for you? Listen to him, understand what he needs from you, what help he needs.
Do your best to eliminate what is teasing your child. It is worth watching the behavior of the child and to find out whether there are any reasons for this behavior to be corrected. Or maybe he does not know how to demonstrate his good qualities that distinguish him from other peers? Usually, if such qualities are manifested in public, then the attitude to the child in the team changes for the better. Maybe your child is called a crampons because of his arrogant behavior among those who are behind in their studies? Here you need the right attitude. The point is not only that the child is teased, the main thing is his attitude to this, what experiences are connected with this. Teach you to correctly treat the situation, correctly evaluate it, and then it will be easier for the child to choose the right method of communication with children who will understand it. It is necessary to ensure that the child does not consider himself to be bad and realized that the problem is not at all in him, and that cowards and weaklings usually tease.
Joint Event
Such an action can be a joint class trip, an invitation to all-school students, including teasers, for your child's birthday. The meaningful of these events is that in the presence of teachers and parents, hardly anyone will dare to tease a child. And the fact that he will have the opportunity to demonstrate his strong qualities.
These meetings can be organized such entertainment as mass games. There will be the opportunity to see and understand that the curve of the nose or the glasses do not have any meaning in the relationship. If the games are chosen correctly, then the relationship of the children in the process of the game can drastically change. So, the leader can become an ordinary, aryad leader.
Help of the school psychologist
If the atmosphere in the classroom is tense and interferes with schooling, it is advisable to attract a specialist to this situation, so that he has a conversation with each and every one separately. This will be of great use in solving problems relating to the use of food and calling. It is possible to identify other more hidden causes of conflicts.