1. Such as everyone.
Nobody likes the expression "like everyone else", but, paradoxically, not everyone is ready to stand out from the general mass of people. To be like everything is to be invisible. But are the people around us so bad? In fact, most of us, almost every person is endowed with some unique abilities and talents that can be developed, which have great prospects and are able to bring success. Therefore, the expression "I am like everyone else" can mean not only limited, but also inspire great hopes - all are talented, and so do I. Of course, not everyone becomes a genius, but anyone can become a successful person.
2. Search for yourself.
Many people do not dare to change their lives, not because they do not believe in their abilities, but because they do not know if they have them, and if there are - those that are worth developing all their lives? In fact, very few are born and understand - I will be a good artist. And even growing up, people seldom doubtless sure that they are engaged in the only thing that is worth it. And yet, you can find out. Usually people have several abilities, skills that help them create something of quality. It does not matter what it is - you can equally well conduct accounts or sing. But one lesson will bring more pleasure, one of them will inspire faith in success, one of these skills will cause the desire to return to such an occupation again and again. Perhaps this is the very vocation, which is worth devoting life.
3. Its own way.
In search of success, there is a great temptation to follow someone else's path to their goal. We look at the successes of other people, and involuntarily we do the same steps, which means the same mistakes. An alien experience is a wonderful thing that can not be discounted. But, by copying someone's life, you go the dead way that someone else passed, whereas for you there is a personal road - a lighter and shorter one. Therefore, do not blindly copy other people's decisions, take the best, but leave yourself the opportunity to improvise and act in your own way, so you will achieve greater success in a shorter period of time.
4. Difficulties.
Everyone knows that everything turns out smoothly only among those who do nothing. If you have decided at least to change something in your life - to find a new job, go to rest, write a novel, make repairs, then some obstacles and difficulties can happen. It is important to adjust to the result and be prepared for what will have to work. That is, you must be confident in your own strengths or in that you will find opportunities to cope with the situation. It is not necessary to glue the wallpaper yourself, especially if there are no suitable skills, but when you are renovating, you should be sure that you can hire specialists and earn money for this. In this case, you will have a positive result.
If you adjust to the fact that in connection with the changes you are waiting for a lot of trouble, perhaps, troubles and unpredictable consequences, nothing good will come of it. Either you started a business that is not up to you at the moment, or you have a wrong attitude. You can not oppose yourself to the world, becoming a fighter in a pose, when the world has not yet made a single movement to either you or you. Any action should be started calmly, confidently and with a positive attitude, only in this case the success will be guaranteed.
These simple rules may seem too banal, but very few people use them in real life. Usually people obey circumstances and refuse to take responsibility for their own lives. It's much easier to say - I can not, it's not for me, it's too difficult, I have no talents and live on, complaining about fate. Those who believed themselves and took a step towards themselves, take everything they want from life. The rest are forced to trail in the end. Where is your place - it's up to you.