Women often find themselves in situations where men raise their voices and start shouting at them. The reasons can be different, from a badly ironed shirt and to cheating on her part. Even the smallest detail can cause irritation in men, which causes a nervous breakdown. Sometimes these cries can end badly for both. Remember those cases when, after shouting, men repeatedly raised their hand against women. To whom in this situation was lucky? No one. A woman has bruises, this is at best, and a man received a police warning if he was lucky. More than once after this there were divorces or legal proceedings, which ended badly for men.
There really is a lot of shouting in our homes today. The man screams, the woman becomes stunned, starts to fear him and behave inadequately.
Psychologists often justify men, they say, they were in a state of affect. When men scream at women - this is not the best weapon, albeit effective.
So what is a cry and how to interpret it correctly? A cry is a reaction of a man or a woman to an external stimulus.
The cause of the scream may be the inability to influence the woman and achieve what he wants. Since screaming is the most powerful psychological weapon that can be compared to physical punishment. An intimidating cry causes a strong inhibition in the cortex of the brain, after which the brain can not perform precise differentiations. And this operation is one of the most important aspects from the point of view of physiology.
In animals, the cry symbolizes the superiority of one animal over another. Lions, for example, eliminate their opponent with powerful heart-rending cries. And among people this is also the norm. When men shout - this is exactly the same statement as among animals. When they shout at women, this, according to psychologists, leads to the destruction of their psyche. Later, the woman runs to her best friend. She tells her everything in the slightest detail, in the hope of finding understanding and tranquility. But her friend should help her to understand the situation. The main thing is not to flog a fever and calmly find out the reasons for screaming a man that caused it. At this point, it is necessary that she helped her to calm down and establish relations with her husband, since this is of much importance. What does it mean to establish? It is to understand yourself and look at yourself from the outside. Maybe the woman herself in some situations behaved incorrectly and now reaps the fruits of her actions or words? All women are afraid of screaming men, but sometimes they themselves are not averse to shouting, which provokes men for bad actions in the future. And sometimes they scream in response to some of the female questions that they do not want to answer. So, for example, about any delays at work or suspicious calls on his mobile phone. When men scream at women, they try to protect themselves and wriggle out of the answer. Everyone has long known that the best defense is an attack, so they use it to somehow protect themselves. Only if they do that, it means they have a stigma in the gun, as they say.
What to do in a situation where men scream at their chosen one? The main thing at the same time does not respond with a cry to his heightened tones. A woman just needs to approach him and gently hug, and his anger as a hand will remove. Understand yourself and understand a man, he's also a living person. His reactions can be directed to good. Could he try to reach you through shouting?