Relations with men
Let's start with the most important thing: your love experiences. Do you constantly change, neglect, throw all the guys? Yes, God, your beloved man raises his hand to you, and you do not have the strength to go. Probably, it is not necessary to specify that the problem is only in you? You know the ideal man. If you discard purely individual signs of external beauty, then, what is most important for you: state, kindness, strength or intelligence. So why do you initially start to build relationships with men of the wrong type, relying on the fact that you can change them. If you necessarily need to have money, so that he drove you to the house by car and drove to restaurants, then why go to the third date with the student? In order to determine the income of a man, a couple of meetings are enough. Do not go any further, if for you the main thing is money. You yourself will not notice how the year will pass, and you will tell your friend that you can not afford a new phone.
Perhaps, for you the most important criterion is the kindness of a man, then why go on a date with a witty cynic who taunts the volunteers? Believe me, he will find his love early or late, and your feelings will not return. These are examples of this - these are the main mistakes of women. Initially choosing the wrong men, the woman relies on ... But really, what to rely on, you do not change for men, who said that it will?
If you are looking for a certain type, then do not exchange, do not be afraid to stay alone, and wait for your man. Of course, sometimes you want any attention, so agree to dates and party parties, but you do not have to fall in love and run after any guy. Be yourself, but do not stay static, but cultivate, learn new things, love your body.
The figure is a separate topic in the foreground of relations. Suppose you are overweight. If nothing is done to him, then let's be honest, then everything suits you. So behave as if your fullness is a gift. Do not sigh at videobulochek, do not envy models, do not try on smaller dresses. Once you have chosen to stay full, you can take joy out of it. Stop being embarrassed on the beach and afraid to undress. You say that you love your body, so why is this constant nagging about losing weight? Do you know how to check whether you love yourself? Think, if by magic, you will be asked to choose the best figure, what will you ask for? For those who for a moment thought of more slender legs or waist, there is a gym and an irrational food.
Manage others
Of course, the relationship with the boss is more difficult to build. He has your money and power in his hands. Learn to talk with him. Never start arguing first. If you need an increase in wages, a new computer in the office or a change in the working day, then let it show up. First, tell me what you need, and then wait. Any guidance will promptly explain why this can not be done. Nodify, confirm his words. Then start talking about why it is beneficial for them to give you this. Tell me that your productivity is slowing down, that productivity will increase with such and such circumstances. You will have a significant advantage, you already know its reasons, but you can refute them.
Before you go and ask something, calculate all the options that you can hear. If this is something very important, then write down on the sheet, everything that can be fended off failure. Do not put the ultimatum on failure, it is likely that the boss will remember your conversation and, at the first opportunity, always give you everything you need.
Also you should have advantages over others. You do not think that you are irreplaceable. Stop working at work and sit in social networks, make sure that you are noticed. Put yourself on the side of leadership, imagine that you were fired - is your company losing something? And must lose! You have to become better even at work. Many simply do not understand how this can be done at specific enterprises. If you sell something, then create a group in social networks, with a range of products and your phone. If you are a cook, be sure to try to prepare new dishes, etc. Do not be afraid of experiments, especially those that will not cost you anything.
If nothing changes, scratch yourself a new job, where you will be appreciated. Sometimes it is much easier to build your career again than to continue to work senselessly. In the questionnaire employment often there is a line: "Who do you see yourself in five years of our company?". Feel free to write what you think about. Set your own specific goals, which you will achieve. Play big, especially if you have already graduated. Do you really think that to get 15.000 people with higher education is it normal?
Be sure to take care of your appearance. In most occupations for women involves working with people. Naturally, you should look like a real professional. In any sphere, you will notice what you are wearing and how much you care for yourself. Cleanliness and neatness in make-up, restrained clothes - and here is the world of business men at your feet. Never make an amendment that you are a girl. Your sex absolutely does not play any role for a career. Read about successful women in the fresh press, in order to be inspired by their example.
The most important advice for all women is PLEASE WAKE UP! This is your life, your happiness, your love and your money. Razves do not feel sorry for every minute of time spent when you were unhappy. If your difficulties depend on others, let your happiness depend only on you.