Many of the women are just sure that after marrying, they should obey the husband in everything, live with his interests, do everything just for him. It's worth forgetting about yourself. However, this is a complete fallacy. Of course, you need to live and listen to the second half, do everything together and together. But in no case do not live just for him. Find yourself a hobby. Be interesting interlocutor, then your husband will appreciate you. How not to fall into the trap of love, we will consider in this article.
To love is not to betray
For the sake of the family hearth, a woman can abandon many of her hobbies and interests. Can abandon a career, faithful girlfriends. However, after many years her precious husband starts a mistress. All the idylls of eternal love immediately fall apart like a house of cards. And then the woman realizes that she spent her best years in vain. She served faith and truth to her beloved, creating him comfort, coziness. And then such a betrayal. It is very painful to survive this situation. And in order not to be sick twice, get caught up in the second half right now, do not live his life. Imeytes space and hobbies. Otherwise, one day look back and no girlfriends, no work, no one's own interests. You did not take place as a person.
Tip
Develop always, learn something new, improve. An interesting person likes everything. Even your husband will be interesting and not replaceable. And if something like this happens to you, then you will not be dependent on your husband, either materially or morally, and also you will quickly find yourself a new love. Become an indispensable friend, partner, beloved. This really guarantees the reliability of long and strong relationships.
Pity - imitation of love
Often a woman lives with a man because of pity for him. He is either an alcoholic or a weak person, he has financial problems, and some other troubles. Such women are sure that they will be able to solve their problems, fix them, without it a man will die. Such sacrificial love does not make sense. Only men can overcome all difficulties, weaknesses and habits. But you need a strong will and desire to solve problems. And when a woman realizes that he can not be rectified already, and does not want to, she is disappointed in him. In this situation, the woman either leaves, or remains to play the role of a rescuer. And in the very same she torments herself and her lover.
Tip
Ward, on the contrary, leads to weakness and inability to solve their problems. You have to be cold-blooded, take care of yourself, your career and your life. When a husband loses faith in you, only then will he begin to move a little, seek such support and support in himself. However, if you are a man asked to help him, do not refuse. For example, he wants you to find a job or a good doctor. This means that your husband is not hopeless and still can get better. And if not, leave him.
The husband does not have to provide
Sometimes women feign their sacrifice in order to sit down with our husband in material terms. The husband's money is his money. We must understand this. Sooner or later he can rebel and let you know about it. As a result, you will sit roaring and blaming yourself for being naive and stupid, that life is ruined.
Tip
Provide yourself. This will be your support and guarantee that you will remain a person even after a disappointment in love. Such a woman has many chances to meet another soul mate. Someone will think that she is not young and that she will not find her prince. Someone thinks 30 years of old age. Anekotorye and in 60 years emit such positive energy and such interesting interlocutors that many will envy.
Realize yourself as a person, develop your talent, taste the taste of life and be happy.