Of course, being "like everyone" is much easier than having an opinion. But if you suddenly do not like to go with the flow, then one of the two - or you're going to become a martyr, or, finally, decided to wake up her inner goddess.
It is high time! It will make you stronger, because to say to yourself: "I myself am responsible for what happens to me," you need much more courage than to bear retribution in the name of the moon. But life turns out to be equally fascinating: more chances to break the bank and become your own ideal. Why compare yourself with someone else? Compare with yourself - such as you were yesterday or a week ago. However, if you start to change and act with might and main, the risk of failure becomes greater than when you sit in one place. But who said that failure is a tragedy? Look at it simply as a way to find out which way is best not to turn off. But the role of the poor orphan who cries at the wreck of the mirror - they say, and there is no money for the crystal uggies, and the reflection in the mirror is somehow not so - it's more convenient for your favorite slippers. You can wait for compliments and sympathy, and when the flow runs out - take more air and sob loudly again. One trouble is that you will not change anything at all.
You see , what's the matter. This is not the most pleasant thought, but there are no miracles. The goddesses create them themselves, and it's up to you how you'll be tomorrow. To play the tragic heroine is pleasant, only at some point everyone is bored with comforting the unfortunate you, and you will be left alone with your problems. And not because your friends are so unreliable, but because consolation is one thing, and feeding emotions is another. No one is obliged to do this for you, even if you really want. And yes, everyone except you can see that you want to not solve the problem, but to suffer and for the sake of this opportunity you all stick to new sad stories.
Maybe it's time for you and your inner goddess to turn the other way? There, where they do not complain, but do and do not try to explain the gaps in their personal lives by the absence of ugg boots. Because it is possible to earn money on uggs, reflection - to correct. And the prince will be easier to notice you, if with him, at least get acquainted, and not sigh after, hiding in the shelter. Yes, it may very well be that not all your desires will be fulfilled tomorrow. And yes, it's much safer and easier to sigh than to move somewhere. Do you somehow not look like a girl from the cover and think it's a great injustice? Then tell me honestly: what have you already done to learn how to be stylish and always look great? And are you ready to take a new step every day to the ideal and to your dreams - seriously, without deceit?
Remember: the more things you will take in your hands, the more desires will come true. And what is quite clear is that you will never find yourself in a broken trough. Because your story is not about loss and regret. Your story - about the radiant Olympus!
While you are reveling in misfortunes, time passes that you could spend on something else. Write down your desires. And then draw a map - how to get to them.
Set yourself real goals of desire. "I want to become Miss World tomorrow" will not work. "I want to reduce the waist by three centimeters, learn to walk on his heels, get myself a Venus Embrace and do not forget to use the scrub" - it's better. Write down what you did to get to the goal. And do not embellish, it is necessary to work on yourself and to mold your image is not necessary.
Be sure to arrange a weekend - a solid job and no fun yet no one has done good. You find ten thousand pretexts, just to not do anything real? There is nothing wrong with understanding: the goal that you have outlined, in fact, you are not interested. Admit it and move on! A dirty head, untidy nails and excess vegetation where it should not be - and all this horror simply because you spent the entire evening watching TV while lying on your favorite couch? The coveted title "Miss World" is already in your pocket, yeah. Your goal will come true right away, just fall in love with yourself, and all dreams will come true.
There is nothing wrong with properly weighing all the pros and cons. But if you put the case back on hold for the third time, because you can not decide in any way ... Let's agree: at least try it! Do not like it - remake.