What is it - an even greater rapprochement and a confidential gesture or, on the contrary, a check, and perhaps even a lookout?
On the question of why a guy introduces a girl to his friends, a simple and unequivocal answer, perhaps not. After all, all people are very different. And friends are different. There is a male friendship for many years, there is cooperation, as they say, in the affairs of the firm, that is, a strictly working relationship, and there are also superficial friendships - chatting, laughing. So it's important to consider who your boyfriend wants to introduce you to. From the answer to the question posed, the reasons for the potential acquaintance with the friends of a loved one will also depend. So, let's figure out why the guy introduces the girl to his friends.
- Close friends. If your young man wants to acquaint you with his close friend (and maybe even with two, after all, there are not many really close friends), then, most likely, he talks about the seriousness of his intentions towards you. This acquaintance, as it were, introduces you into the circle of people close to a man. Undoubtedly, this is a gesture of trust towards you. Your beloved says: "You've become very close to me, I appreciate you as much as my old and trusted friends, I'm ready to trust you"!
Acquaintance with a circle of close friends can lead to very different consequences. A successful acquaintance and a pleasant impression that you will make will undoubtedly raise your status in the eyes of your boyfriend. After all, it will speak in his favor and only confirm the correctness of his choice. Of course, the opinion of close friends is important to him. In addition, the positive result of this acquaintance, no doubt, will affect your friendships. Perhaps now you will "be friends with families" with someone from your boyfriend's friends, communicate closely, go to visit, etc. Accordingly, it extends your circle of acquaintances, and, probably, somehow will affect and your way of life.
Rarely, but it happens that, on the contrary, the girl did not quite like the man's close environment, but he continues to meet with her. If this happens to you, then he will have to choose - either old friendships, or beloved. As a rule, in such a situation, the strength of feelings is checked against the girl. The guy will only stay with you if he is seriously involved and does not intend to change his plans even for the sake of close friends.
Usually the same close friends of the man in the main issues are unanimous with him. It's not for nothing that they have maintained close, trusting relationships for many years, they are ready to help each other, if necessary, and are ready to rely on each other. They have much in common, besides, they trust the choice of a friend.
- Colleagues. Usually with this category of friends the guy acquaints then when these colleagues are also friends. Either when you and your loved one are working in one firm, and your relationship with him is only acquiring the character of a novel. In this case, you appear before your colleagues at work as if in a new status.
In the first case, the desire to acquaint you can be a variety of intentions. This may be a desire to trumpet in front of colleagues his chosen one (boast of her beauty, charm). Thus, a man can raise his rating among colleagues (here, they say, what a girl I have!) In general, this is not good, not bad. In principle, it is understandable the desire to demonstrate their masculine status and pride for their chosen one. Male pride has not been canceled yet, and, accordingly, your boyfriend may just be pleased to hear from colleagues flattering feedback about you. But if a guy demonstrates his girlfriend to colleagues, only to assert himself, he certainly loses in your eyes. Probably, he has nothing more to brag about at all, and this is not the best option. Look closely at your companion!
In the second case, your man just wants to open all your relationships. Here, when the guy introduces the girl again, he seems to present you to colleagues in a new status. This can be done in a slightly jocular tone, and quite seriously. In this case, it is worth supporting the intention of the man. After all, you yourself, undoubtedly, are interested in having your two colleagues perceived as a couple. So play along with your lover if he undertakes to tell about it in a playful tone!
- Friends. Perhaps this is the only option, where you can have more or less justified suspicion regarding the purposes of acquaintance. Well, if the guy wants you to meet his friends - buddies in order to maintain relationships, socialize, etc. But it happens that he introduces the girl to his friends, for example, to gossip about you together, and even laugh. Another of the bad options is to get acquainted with the goal of boasting about you for the sake of raising the status among friends (we talked almost the same about acquaintance with colleagues).
It happens that the desire of the guy to introduce the girl to his friends is the intention not to show it to them, but quite the contrary. Often a young man just wants to show you how he lives, with whom he communicates. Perhaps it is he in front of you showing off his friends! Support him, tell me that his company really liked you. Find common topics for conversation, enter their circle. Especially if it does not strongly contradict your own views on life. Remember, it's much worse when a guy does not want to introduce a girl to his environment. So, either he is embarrassed or he is too jealous and that is why he hides you even from friends, or he hides something from you (or someone else). Perhaps he is playing a double game? Do not mess with such! Relations with him will not bring you happiness, and the forces and time will be taken away a lot. Look for someone who will trust you and their interests, and their friends, with whom, perhaps, you then will not feel sorry to live happily a lifetime. And this, you must agree, is a lot!