1. Health.
One of the most common reasons why a man starts to refuse sex is health problems. It can be various infectious, inflammatory and even venereal diseases that affect the potency. For example, prostatitis can make sexual intercourse almost impossible, as it weakens the potency and causes physical discomfort. Since men rarely openly talk about their problems and even less often treat them to a doctor, the reason for the sharp change in the temperament of her husband, can be covered in the problems with health.
2. The age.
It is known that with age, the craving for the opposite sex is weakening. The older a man becomes, the less hormones responsible for sexual attraction are produced in his body. Therefore it is not surprising that a man in 50 years wants sex much less than in 30 years.
Now there are drugs that stimulate the production of male hormones. But there are also many fakes that are harmful to health. Therefore, in search of "juvenile apples" should be guided not by advertising, but by the advice of a doctor.
3. Self-doubt.
Sometimes it seems that there is no apparent reason why a man could refuse intimacy. But the reason is always there and often it is self-doubt. Perhaps the man was experiencing some difficulties with potency or premature ejaculation. It could affect the self-esteem, there was a fear that such situations would be repeated all the time. The situation is complicated many times if a woman had a carelessness to comment sharply on what happened. Male coldness often begins after reproaches of a woman. The psychological trauma received at such moments can significantly complicate the relationship between a man and a woman. Solve this problem can be a joint effort with a family psychologist or sexologist.
4. Treason.
According to the results of numerous surveys, the betrayal of a man is not a reason to refuse to have sex with his wife. Men who have mistresses are most often able to have sex with their spouse. They are less dependent on emotions, and if they do not have health problems, then treason rarely becomes the reason that a man begins to avoid intimacy.
But sometimes love on the side or a sense of guilt from a committed mistake can reduce sexual contact to naught. Only frank conversation can solve this problem. But in such situations, heart-to-heart talks often end in divorce. Therefore - to start a conversation about treason or close your eyes to it, everyone decides for himself.
5. Stress.
Chronic fatigue, stress, constant lack of sleep - another reason why a man may not want sex. If the day of a man is very tired, a lot of nervous and all the time is in suspense, then there is nothing surprising that at night in bed he wants only to sleep peacefully. Sometimes it is only a complete change of activity that can solve such a problem, and sometimes enough full-time rest, regular holidays and careful treatment. If a woman tries to create a home comfort and a quiet atmosphere, a man will learn to relax in her presence and leave all working problems behind the threshold, then the male coldness will never manifest itself.
The reasons for which there is male coldness, abound. But, strangely enough, most of these reasons are easily eliminated. If a couple of trusting relationships, love and respect for each other, then nothing can separate them. Neither health, nor complexes, nor fatigue will not be unsolvable problems. Only a conscious refusal to have sex, strong feelings for another woman, can put an end to intimate relationships. But even betrayal is by no means always sufficient reason for intimate intimacy to disappear forever from the couple's relationship.