Men tend to show their superiority in all spheres of life - including in the sexual field. Roughness and stiffness is not uncommon in the intimate relationships of many couples, but male dominates in terms of cruelty. He is also the initiator of gross sexual games. Why is this happening? Why men like hard sex - this will be discussed below.
In the animal world
Frankly, there is a lot in common between men and animals. All males in the animal world (like men in the human world) try to be stronger, smarter and more attractive for females (and women) and, therefore, to be ruder than others. Only the assertive and strong nature gives a chance to find the disposition of the weaker sex and extend its kind. The latter is no longer so relevant for men, but subconsciously they still try to dominate their potential rivals. Hard sex is an excuse.
If you like to wander through alleys in the park, then you probably noticed how male pigeons behave during the breeding season. The plain-looking bird (male) suddenly starts zealously around a tiny female, pursuing her, blowing her neck, lowering her head to the ground and spreading her wings. He can also take a vertical position, straining his neck, and his tail rotates as a fan, making loud noises. Around the same, a man tries to conquer a woman. The only difference is that the dove is primitive and can not think of anything more original. A man, being at a higher stage of evolution, can give an expensive ring, flowers or an apartment in the center as a confirmation of the sincerity of his feelings. And women choose the most "worthy" - that is, persistent, self-sufficient, secured and slightly rude. With external differences, the behavior of a man and a dove is very similar. And the result is one - the location of the conquered female.
In the animal kingdom, rudeness in sex is quite common. Life itself forces them to do this. The animal is doomed to death, if it does not seek its own, it will not be happy for the continuation of the race. Men on a subconscious level like hard sex for the same reason. By the way, many women also love him. After all, we are biologically closely related to the animal kingdom ...
Rough sex is not a perversion!
Of course, it can not be said that some men prefer rough sex just because it is fixed in their biological and genetic codes. This is not quite true. To answer the question why a man loves hard sex, we must first understand why a man loves sex in general.
Of course, somewhere deep in the subconscious, we have the task: to leave behind posterity. But over time, this need goes to the distant future. In nature, there are only three kinds of living beings who are able to have sex for pleasure: primates, dolphins and humans. The need for sex, we begin to feel closer to the period of puberty. So, people have sex, because they want it. And what about men? And men do this also because they show that they are men. Of course, you can give other reasons, but these two are basic.
There are many introduced stereotypes in society that so often affect us. A man is strong, a woman is weak. In essence, this means that the man is the main, and he must win the woman, using his power and authority. And more specifically, the hunt for women is the right way to feel like a strong male male. In order to strengthen its position of the male, after conquest, it is necessary to establish its leadership and "mate" with the conquered female. This is how pure superiority is expressed - in many people it is associated, if not with oppression, then at least by any suppression of the partner.
The beginning of the relationship can be achieved by paying an invoice in a restaurant, in a taxi, buying movie tickets or a theater. Then comes the second stage - where only the man decides when his opinion is always the most right. But the most important is only the third stage - the time of rough sex, which allows a man to finally strengthen the role of a single and absolute leader in relationships.
Rough sex is extremely interesting, as it is sex in its pure form, rather than mixed feelings, pathetic gestures, sighs and useless attributes in the form of special lighting and bed linens from the last Italian collection. Emotions prevail over feelings, passion over love. The desire to become partners in a rude way arises precisely in the head and raises the level of testosterone, with which no one can do anything. Just a man wants his superiority over a woman to be undeniable in the physical and moral plane.
A victim or a huntress?
If a woman knows the psychology of men, she will allow her partner to go on the offensive to win a big battle. She will show that she does not want rough sex and will moan, beg him to be softer (of course, to pretend), which will further stimulate the man. In everyday life he surrounds such a woman with love and care, showing how dear to him. But sex will remain rude - a male and a female can not spend time on gentle kisses, preferring to immediately proceed to the actual side of communication.
It is hardly possible to find a man who is grossly disgusted by nature (although, of course, there are those who love a goddess in a woman, and do not even think about possible rudeness). With all this, you can not blame men for their rude thinking. A man must be a hunter, protector, head of the family. He wants to be responsible for expressing the superiority of power for all responsibility, and if a woman does not allow such things, he will strive to realize his power elsewhere. Of course, not to mention the fact that man is the navel of the earth and must be surrounded by everything pleasant for himself. On the contrary, if a woman helps him in this "rough" game, then she will only win. According to various studies and surveys, most women also like rough sex, and every third even dreams of rape. With a loved one, this becomes an ordinary element of a sexual game.
What women dream of hard sex?
It is relatively easy to identify the susceptibility of women to severe sexual games.
First, there are women who love men who all decide for them. At the same time they satisfy their every desire, and every minute everything is served to them on a golden saucer. Rough sex - a kind of payment for care and care. In addition, these women want rough sex. In which everything is also decided for them.
Secondly, there are women who prefer diversity in all spheres of life, including sex. Indeed, they not only allow themselves a little offense, but they themselves can be rude and assertive with a partner. They do not like monotony. Hard sex saves them from everyday routine.
Thirdly, these are women who live in conditions that bring them closer to the role of the humiliated. Such women can be called moral masochists. They like it when a man insults them and treats them harshly in the intimate sphere of life.
Fourth, this outwardly impregnable woman. In order to enjoy it, a man is forced to go to rudeness. In another way, you can not take such a woman. Because of the nature of the character, such active women like sex, but the boundary between an active and violent act of love is very thin.
In conclusion, we note that in the 21st century, gross sex (but not violence!) Can not be taboo or something that is out of the rules. If a man and a woman love each other, then everything they do in bed by mutual consent is natural and pleasant. Most often men like to have hard sex with a woman they love. So why limit yourself in pleasure?