It would seem that happiness is a sexless concept. And of course, in the global sense of the word, we all want the same thing - that someone would wait for someone at home, like that everyone is healthy and everything in that spirit. But you must agree, because each of us has great happiness and little happiness, which we sometimes call "small joys." So let's figure out where the man's happiness lies. And what is the role of women in the process of "happiness".
Car
Speech, of course, will go about the car. This is the holy of holies of your chosen one. His personal territory, his offspring, his second beloved. Responsibility for a car in men is equated with responsibility for a friend or child. Ideal is not at all what is expensive, but simply because our men are tacostroenes. Buy a new radio for their "beauty" - this is the happiness. And they do not need a new sweater until the winter tires are bought. And money is not a pity if it comes to their mobile happiness.
Your mom is your mom
Anecdotes about the mother-in-law appeared for a reason. Even if your lover has a wonderful relationship with your parent, it does not mean that he is ready to contemplate it every day at your house or, worse, to share with the nihil. If the relationship between your young man and your mother, soft-spoken, strained, then making it happy will be even easier - reduce the incidence to a minimum. Someone will say that this is wrong, but in fact, you yourself probably do not want to see his unsatisfied face or hear him whine. You can not rectify the situation, but do not spoil your mood and make your chosen one happy. It is enough to gather together on holidays.
Work - second home
Who among us does not dream of such work, which we would like to escape in the morning. No doubt, my favorite work is happiness. It's another matter when problems arise at work. Girls can move away from them and forget themselves in the embrace of the loved one, for men this is more difficult. They and the houses will be nurturing a plan to rectify the situation, and your impatience and unwillingness to understand why it is so crowded and not focused on you will only irritate it. In such situations, it is necessary to show understanding. Learn to recognize when your man needs you, and when you need to leave him alone.
There is - it's good, but it's good to eat - it's even better
Way to the heart of a man .... Everyone remembers what this proverb ends with. Nobody will argue with the fact that if a girl can cook, this is a huge plus in her track record of a future wife. And if a girl can boast of uncommon culinary abilities, then she does not have a price. Firstly, men like to eat deliciously, and home-made food is always tastier than store-based convenience foods or restaurant crumbs. Secondly, boast among friends that the evening he ate a chicken Tabaka, skillfully cooked by his beloved, dreams every man. In addition, you yourself will rejoice, looking at the happy face of your husband, when he will gnaw the bones.
Goal, goal, goal!
Not all men are fans of football, but such are the majority. And with this fact nothing can be done. If an important match is on TV, then you, the girls, will move to the background, and if the young man has a ticket and the game is available, you can forget about the romantic evening by candlelight. What to do? There are two ways out: the first is to accept and move, after all, football does not show every day; the second is to join him, to share his interests. True, not all girls are ready for the second option. As soon as the match comes to an end, and all its nuances will be discussed in the men's company, your lover will return to your strong arms again and be happy.
Universal Soldier
Men's criteria for the female character and behavior can be strained, but they can all be written into one scheme: in the kitchen - the mistress, in bed - a debaucher, in public - shy. So it turns out that a woman has to be almost universal soldier. Then he will be happy. Now women have a sense of self-respect, they say, why should we all be able to do this. Rasslabljtes, girls, we all aspire to this, without man's prompts. So actually, each of us is a fount of talents, it's just that not all of us have opened them or did not have anyone to open them for. So it is quite possible that the true secret of your beloved's happiness lies within you.
Friends are sacred
Being a bachelor, a man is used to meeting friends when he thinks. And now, when he has you, he has to change something. In my opinion, this is unfair. And to some extent he is right. It's clear, the nightgowns will have to be stopped or reduced to a minimum, but this does not mean that Friday's beer evenings will be eradicated. Loosen the leash, and your man will be from friends happy to come back to you.
"... I would give birth to a hero for the tsar's father"
The birth of a child for a man is very important, and the birth of a son is a whole holiday. This does not mean that the girl he will love less, it just so happened that the birth of "peasant in the family" representatives of the strongest pride more. Of course, here you are unlikely to be able to somehow influence the outcome, but you can have several attempts.
As you can see, men also have their own small joys, which make up a whole picture of happiness. And your participation in this process is the most that is not important.