What do we, women, in principle need? Healthy children, an apartment where one could live, preferably a minimum of three, a car that could be driven, preferably foreign cars, to keep up with our friends and life, and most importantly the husband who would give us all this. Most often our choice falls on those who can not give us neither one nor the other, but they can give children ... and children need to be raised in normal conditions. Well, what to do, if we are women are such stupid creatures. And now we have to drag our men, educate and teach them how to make money. And what if we raised a man and released him to freedom? And what if the former lover can give us everything, and the present one - nothing. Why do I need a former lover - the topic of our article.
And now he calls and says that he has found an excellent job, where in the future he is shone up to the very heavens. It calls another time and says that he is buying a car - a foreign car, and not some rubbish there. It rings for the third time and says that he is going to buy an apartment, and not a one-room apartment, but a three-piece apartment. And what do these calls mean? Maybe this is the urge to restore the relationship, then ask the question - Why do I need a former lover - just because you made him a successful man? And you will love him only for that? And he will love and respect you? Or maybe he just thinks you are a friend, and he calls and shares his joys with a friend, because when you parted, you said "I'm sorry, let's remain friends" and he naively follows your proposal. Or maybe he just wants to show you what gold you lost, and maybe he wants you to bite your elbows?
And now let's talk about what you now feel for him and how to treat it. Of course, the female ego says "I did it this way, and everything he does, he must do for me," but what do you feel for him? Nothing, only resentment and greed, well, we do not want to give such gold to another woman, you do not feel any warm feelings towards him, and you are not sure whether those feelings were earlier. What to do?
We are women! In spite of our stupidity and naivete, we are cunning and we can always find a way out of any possible and impossible situation. The main thing to remember is that we all can. It is possible from the current lover who lives in your heart, to make an ideal, to educate and to understand what you want from him that you need to live in the future with him happily, and most importantly in abundance.
Almost all men believe that women are treacherous creatures who want from them only money and wealth, cars and diamonds, only they do not understand why we need it. The nature is already in us all this is laid, because if you watch the channel Animals Planet, they show the same thing. For example, a female deer chooses a male with large horns, because large horns signify the majesty and power of a male, a lot of female fishes choose males with a bright coloring of scales, lionesses belong to a lion with a large mane that holds territory, and women choose men with a large purse , with a large car and a large apartment, and of course with great love for her.
Many people argue that sex is an animal instinct, or talk about other manifestations of animal instincts, and in women - our prosperous future is a manifestation of animal instinct, already inherent in women. So, if men do not understand this, because we can not fight against this, and we are not going to, because we must be provided with everything that is necessary for us, because we give birth to children for them, it's so common that children - this is their continuation, not ours.
And so, back to where we started. Turning back is not worth it, and trying to return the former lover is also not worth it, because only an unhappy person turns back, and thus lets past the future. Look forward and do not miss the one that can give you all this in the present. Be patient with your chosen one, because reproaches on your part will only exacerbate your problems. It is necessary to push it slowly and correctly to a brighter future, for it is not for nothing that they say "quietly you will go further". Love the present, and cherish them, give your man all his love, and he will throw at your feet all that you want, a bright prosperous future including. Why do you need a former lover when you have a terrific and current ?!