Many women at least once worried about this question: "How is jealousy manifested in men?" It is clear with women here, she can ask him with whom and where he was, why he returned later than usual time, sniffs to see if the husband smells as female spirits, etc. But in men, strangely enough, jealousy manifests itself in the same way. He can ask, with whom and where you were, and if he sees that you are communicating with your friend, then he will ask how long you have known him.
Manifestation of jealousy in men
If your lover decided to go to the theater after he found out that you are going there with your acquaintance; if your man offers you a lift after you told him that a friend will drive you - these are the first signs that he is jealous of you.
Male jealousy manifests itself in a special way
This applies to those men who prefer not to act directly, but to seek detours, these men are always courteous. At breakfast, he casually talks about your friend and asks: "How long have you known him?" Such men are embarrassed to show that they are jealous, but if they mention it several times a day, then this is a sign of jealousy.
Another sign of jealousy is your man's reaction to a friend of yours. On the street you met your old friend, whom you have not seen for many years. You hugged, kissed each other and when you started talking, your lover is right there. He begins to get acquainted, tries to attract attention or will talk without stopping, only so that your friend and you do not talk only together.
In modern society, marriage should not prohibit access to communication with people. Although the reason for jealousy is adultery, a man can be jealous of his beloved for hobbies, computer, work and so on.
Jealousy is a complex feeling, this desire to possess and the fear of losing a loved one, it is accompanied by doubt in fidelity and in love, a feeling of passionate distrust accompanied by anger and humiliation. All jealous want to keep beside you at any cost of another person, a sense of ownership, distrust of a partner, self-doubt, low self-esteem.
The consequences of excessive jealousy
- Jealousy leads to a deterioration of relations between partners. Tears, scandals, shadowing, quarrels, reproaches and suspicions make the life together unbearable.
- Frequent suspicions and reproaches in treason can lead to real change. Such a betrayal is called "spite".
- Jealousy reaches such a strength that it becomes obtrusive. The jealousy of jealousy manifests itself in the supposed rivals or in aggressive actions towards the partner.
- External manifestations of jealousy have a bad effect on the health of children. And parents in an effort to cure a child are forced to put up with each other for the time being.
- Strong jealousy has a bad effect on their health. Jealous people suffer from insomnia, their tense nerves lead to nervous breakdowns or stress, they have problems with the intestines, suffer from a headache.
- Because of the experiences, the work of brain areas that are responsible for the metabolism is disrupted, which leads to weight gain. The immune system suffers and eczema may start.
Try to fight jealousy with such techniques
Find the reason if your partner doubts your loyalty, and this jealousy has developed into a habit. Introduce your husband to his friends of the opposite sex, making friends with them, he will understand that nothing threatens your happiness. It is important to ensure the confidence, reliability and stability in your relationship. Do not give reasons for jealousy, do not provoke jealousy. Forcing sometimes to be jealous of your partner, you need to remember that the feelings of other people and your own are quite inert. They need time for braking and for swinging. Play with jealousy, do not play. The main thing in this business is not to go very far. Never forget that a man needs to give his feelings, care and attention. You can say that the salt of love is jealousy. And when problems begin, there is a lot of salt, and then love becomes inedible.