Correct and decent behavior in society is the main indicator of your upbringing, education and inner essence. Looking at your behavior, the ability to behave yourself, politely to conduct and properly convey, any person will have a positive impression of you. But, unfortunately, many do not know what to do in public and are often lost in conversations or even worse, begin to act vulgarly at the same time. To prevent such mistakes in the future, you need to know and adhere to even the basic rules of etiquette.
The first thing that would not hurt to learn, especially the Russian people - is to carefully treat surrounding people and be considered this opinion, otherwise you will put in embarrassment all, and in the first turn yourself. If you say everything that comes to your mind - you will rash an ill-mannered, bad person and you will not stop. In a society you should always keep yourself at ease, and for this you have to have a good overall development (in order to have a common development, you need to communicate more, read, visit theaters, watch cognitive films, etc.). It will help you always stay on top in any situation, for example, find an interesting topic for conversation, support the conversation and correctly answer any questions.
Many people have a habit of remembering others' wrongs or cursing those who are for some reason (often the cause of ordinary envy) is unpleasant. And it is very important to know that such conversations in any case can not be supported, even if the topic you are discussing is also nenravitsya. Any of your conversation and gossip can be immediately transferred to the third person by this person, and sometimes even in a distorted form and in a different sense. But it's not enough to stop cursing because of the fear that all the rumors will reach the discussed person. It is important to understand and realize that gossip is a meanness. And do not go down to that level.
In any society they like "light" and cheerful people, so if you like to joke, try to do it in such a way so that you do not take pride in self-esteem and feelings (do not ridicule fat or thin people, do not ridicule names, surnames, etc.).
In a conversation, never interrupt the interlocutor, first let him finish his thought, listen to his phrase to the end and only then ask questions or something to answer. But if it happened that they interrupted you for no good reason, then do not rush to shout and react wildly, listen adequately and silently to criticism and objections, knowing that you are leading a conversation with a well-bred person. Also, when trying to talk, try not to call those who are faceless "he" or "she", call them by their names. In communication always take into account the age, position, interests, life principles and character of the interlocutor. For any person, one must always be treated with respect and consideration.
The polite person will never forget to be the first to say hello, to accompany any request with the words "please", "be nice", etc., thank you for the service or apologize for someone's inconvenience.
A tactical (sense of proportion) is inherent in a cultured, educated and educated person. This is the ability to find a form of communication between the people of the earth, to feel their mood and to reckon with them, taking into account the characteristics of their characters.
The ability to behave not only in some company, but in public places is no less important indicator of your level of upbringing, development and culture.
If you decide to go to the theater, you must learn a few basic rules of etiquette. Of great importance is the appearance: women are recommended to wear evening dress (for men - tailcoat or tuxedo), too frank or casual clothes in this case will play against you (this is a sign of bad taste). In winter, it is recommended to come with replaceable shoes. The shift shoes are put in the wardrobe together with the outer clothing. Headgear removed forever, and curvy hair and too fragrant perfume - inappropriate. It's disrespectful to be late for a performance. The first to enter the hall is always a man, showing tickets. Wade to his place should face to sitting along the row. If you are sitting still, then stand up and give way to a neighbor in a row. In the theater, you can not be noisy and you need to turn off all cell phones. To talk, make noise, rustle, eat during the performance is by no means possible (for this there is a buffet and intermission). It is customary to show admiration (without whistling and toeping) at certain moments, usually after the end of each act (or at the end of particularly successful scenes) and at the end of the whole play.
If you walk along the street or go somewhere on business, observe the rules of pedestrian traffic, because this is not only a sign of courtesy, but also a necessity. On the sidewalk, it is customary to walk on the right side, without pushing the road (if there is no sidewalk, then you should go towards the traffic). Crossing the street, noticing an elderly person or an invalid, offer him his help. It's not right to blow your nose loudly in the street, sneeze, pick at your nose, yawn. Never throw garbage on the road or pavement, for this there are special urns.
Before you enter the pharmacy or the store, first pass out of it, it is especially useful to know this to people from our country, since this rule is violated daily. If you notice that next to an elderly person, a pregnant woman or a disabled person, skip ahead. Taking animals with them is not recommended. With a lit cigarette or a frozen in the store also does not enter.
If you use public transport, try to follow the following rules of etiquette. At the entrance to the bus (metro, trolley, tram, etc.) in the first turn, give the opportunity to leave for other passengers. You can not linger at the door (it is recommended to go to the salon). Always need to give way to older people, pregnant women, young mothers and disabled people. Sign of bad manners and the immodesty is also a loud conversation and laughter in public transport.
If you are invited to visit, it is not recommended to be late. If there is still no possibility to arrive on time, be sure to warn the owners about it. It is not appropriate to carefully consider the apartment furniture and other attributes of the interior, as well as ask questions about their value, otherwise, you will demonstrate your ignorance.