And you are tormented by the thought that you have to share it with someone. And nothing else, how to wear the status of a mistress you do not. The villain-destiny decided to pillow you, and the Cupid shot arrows at all in the wrong people. But how not to twist, you are in his life, and he is directly in yours. And this can go on for a long time: secret meetings behind his wife's back, sleepless nights with thoughts of him. The situation turned out not at all in your favor. But the problem is that you love him, or at least think that you love him. So all the same, a married man: how to win and not miss it?
As you know, "the forbidden fruit is sweet." The phrase that we have heard so many times and which can be applied to many life situations, including a married man. This is our psychology of being - so far something does not belong to us, we strive to get it at any cost. Whatever it costs us. It is for this reason that most girls and women turn their attention to "other people's husbands". Considering them something inaccessible, what it is worth to strive for and, setting a goal, by all means get it. After all, it is by your standards so unattainable, so good and in general you are an ideal couple. And his wife, absolutely not worthy to be with him, and bear this proud status. And you are confident in your subconscious for one hundred percent that his happiness is to be with you, not with her, his lawful wife. You are a mistress, but she is nobody. After all, the mistress of the word "love", and the wife of what? Yes, even in your dictionary there is no such sign. You are an ideal party for him, but not her. And while you are firmly confident in your beliefs, he continues to belong to her. Married man: how to win and not miss, how to tame him and make him leave the family?
Understand yourself and your feelings. To begin with, be sure to decide for yourself that this is your man and that you will not regret what you have done. But to recapture, there is nothing tricky, just be the most feminine, the most desirable, the most caring and the best. Show him what value he has for you, how you value him and love him. Prove to him that you are better than another with whom he lives in a marriage. Make an argument that it would be all right, he would not go to the left of it. After all, their husbands do not change their good wives. Know, this is war, but in war all means are good. As the popular saying says: "You need to know the enemy in person." The point is that in order to discourage a man from his wife, you simply have to be a hundred times better than her. You should know as much as possible about his wife. Her tastes are the preference that he likes about her, which is annoying. And take this all on your note. And in any case, do not allow her mistakes and do not follow in her footsteps. And over its positive qualities take the full dominant for its part. That is, to become more committed and better. Make him respect himself, do it so that it is with you that he feels confident and comfortable in all situations. What he admired you, and his just a magnet pulled to you. Show him the bad sides of his married life and clearly and easily explain how you would feel good together, what advantages await him when he is only yours. Remember. A man should believe you, only trust and a correct word in his family you can achieve it. Let him feel that only with you he can be a real man, desired and in demand.
But here it is worth remembering that it is not worth much to lean on a man. After all, it is not easy for him, and this love triangle strangles not only you. Simply men are quite indecisive in the implementation of their desires and ideas. They are very hard to change, and even more so in their personal lives. Therefore, you must help him in this, and not how not to demand it from him. Just imperceptibly, as if dripping on his brain, from day to day, push him to this decisive act. Here, I think, the result will not wait long, especially if he loves you. If the man himself can not make a choice in favor of any of you and he is satisfied with everything. He is ready to walk more than one year from her to you and vice versa. Why such a fight. If he did not think about it himself, then what to say. Is he satisfied with this situation - to live in the middle of two fires (women). Here to you many women and girls in one voice seem that this is not a man, but a rag. And where is the guarantee that one day it will be possible to get it, you will not be in his wife's place? It is better to be unique not the second and not even the first. You will certainly find another man. The most worthy candidate for this, who will long to suffer for a long time, afraid to change something. If a man really wants change and you are not an empty place for him, he will solve this problem himself. Whatever torment not you, not your wife and first of all yourself. Believe me, such a man deserves to be called "real".
And finally, I want to say, if you can take your husband away from the family, think a hundred times, do you need this? You can not build happiness on someone else's misfortune and this is a fact. You then have to live with this. The theme "Married man: how to win and not miss" is very complex, it has a lot of pitfalls. After all, if you could defeat him, where is the guarantee that in a day, two, a month, a year, there will not be another one like you and will not take him away, but already with you. And still, after all, try to put yourself at least once in the place of his wife. How would you like it? Ambition is certainly good, but going to the goal of the corpses is not a grateful deed. Here, happiness does not smell. It is easier to forget it, to give up. You are smart and beautiful, which means you will meet a decent man for yourself, but for the rest you should not chase. Moreover, he wants to leave his wife for another - this is far from a noble act. If he had a mistress with his wife, there are no guarantees that he will not change you either. If he left someone for you, not the fact that he will leave you for someone in the future.