Nowadays, a huge number of social networks and special dating sites, where you can safely not only communicate with a virtual interlocutor, but even flirt with him. Sometimes such flirting can develop into a real romance with love and sexual relations, and sometimes stay in the same place. In such flirting, women as well as men participate equally. But if the goal of the first is to understand your self-esteem and once again show yourself the basics of the ability to lead a "love game" (even virtual), then why do men need a virtual flirtation?
Man and the virtual world
Most representatives of the stronger sex when answering the question: "Why does a man need a virtual flirt?" Answer that they lack real communication. Most of these men would never agree to a non-binding sex for friendship in real life, taking for granted a virtual romance. By the way, such flirting can calmly lead both a bachelor and a married man. This, in the first place, is due to the fact that men do not consider this form of flirting for treason, because you can simply turn on the computer and immerse yourself in the virtual world, forgetting about all adversities and troubles. But despite such statements of men, psychologists are very concerned about this circumstance. According to them, virtual flirting can absolutely replace the representatives of the stronger sex, not only live communication, but also the joy of carnal love. So, according to statistics, what was conducted in Western Europe, it turned out a curious pattern that 26% of men in the age group under 30 prefer instead of real flirting and communication with the girl (including sexual contact), virtual communication with elements of flirting and even virtual sex. And the situation in the US looks even worse: according to all the same statistics, 65% of men prefer cyberflirt in return for the present.
What gives men virtual flirting?
Most often, men expect that virtual flirting will bring them simply new, fun feelings and impressions. For many men, such flirting is advantageous in that, in essence, they do not commit to anything and certainly do not require the obligatory continuation and development of relations. A man saves himself from the ordinary and boredom, trying himself in a new role of "seducer from the screen of the monitor."
By the way, according to all the same psychologists, virtual flirting is a flirtation with oneself. A man, not knowing "in real life" his partner, puts into it his fantasies and expectations, which, in his opinion, should be endowed with a real woman. By the way, this is exactly the way a woman does not get a man in real life, hence the conclusion that the representatives of the stronger sex always idealize their virtual "seduction object". Such a flirting man, as a rule, tries to tighten up as long as possible, showing himself in all his glory and the image of a real seducer. The man always selects the interlocutor "by interests", the right age, appearance, etc. With such a lady, he proves to himself that he can achieve the goal and even if his plan fails, the man still does not stop there, because he wants to prove to himself that any girl can be interested in him. Here is one more conclusion - interest and curiosity.
And the last thing, a man is much easier to communicate with a woman he does not know "in real life," with such a woman he can not only flirt, but also discuss sore topics and even share problems. It's hard for a man to tell that he is tormented by looking into the eyes of a familiar woman, but communication over the Internet is another. So sometimes ordinary flirting can be the founder of the fact that a man wants to put a woman to her, just to pour out her soul to her. But we still do not advise you to hope for the continuation of such a novel.