Matrimonial duties on the part of men

What do we know about men? The fact that they are stronger than us, sometimes smarter, more cunning and insensitive. But the main knowledge about them comes to us from the very childhood, it's only necessary to overhear the conversations of adults, it turns out that men "only need one". When we grow up and finally understand what mother meant, it turns out that "only one" you want, and your man tries to avoid his conjugal duties with all his might. Why do they escape from our bed?

Believer husband.
Once you found this touching and sweet, he led you lofty conversations about God, talked about serious intentions and about the sanctity of marriage. But then you could not even think what will turn his religiousness into your bed. It turns out that he has constant posts, abstinence, he does not accept sex for the sake of conception. Naturally, you might not have known about this state of affairs, since before marriage, sex in such relationships is virtually excluded, and conversations on this topic are rarely welcomed.
If you share his faith and desire for spiritual, not physical pleasure, then, most likely, you will find a common language. If you would like more sex, regardless of religious holidays and important dates, then your marriage can very quickly burst at the seams. Try to talk with him, explain your position, your opinion on this issue. Of course, it is unlikely that a truly believing person will go to persuasion, but, perhaps, think about whether to sacrifice family happiness and slightly soften the rules.

A demanding husband.
When you met, you were proud of an aspen waist, with pleasure ran in interior on hairstyles and stackings, did a manicure and a pedicure. Some time passed, and you found that there was no time for the salons, because of the measured life or the birth of the baby, very noticeable creases appeared on the abdomen, and the husband became very cold in bed. Probably, your pious - a great esthete, who appreciates in a woman primarily external shine and sexuality. Of course, it is very insulting and difficult - not to have the right to change, but, think, it will surely turn out that you knew perfectly well about the preferences of your husband. Also knew, on what went.
If your husband refuses sex because of your extra pounds, but he himself has grown a decent abdomen, you have an excuse to point him out. A good solution will be joint activities in the gym for the benefit of family happiness. If his appearance is still impeccable, remember what you were when you met and try to get that image back. Sometimes men are even confused by the cardinal change of hair color, and if you are a fan of changing the image, then the reason may be just this.

Indecisive husband.
Sometimes it happens that the sexual preferences of the spouses do not fundamentally coincide. You could live a soul in the soul for years, but once you realized that you would like something new, except that the husband is not ready for change at all.
Usually men gladly agree to all kinds of experiments, only some of them refuse to try a new pose or a new way to please each other. If your husband is just from such timid men, do not push him, otherwise your activity will definitely beat the desire to make love.
Instill him with the belief that your sex gives you pleasure, but you see ways to make it even more vivid. Offer to start with a small, do not scare your beloved, even if you really want to try sex in the style of "BDSM". Let it be gentle and not too exotic games. Soon the husband will be drawn into the game, especially if he sees what pleasure delivers you.

The strange husband.
Perhaps this is the most variable quantity in your bed. He that is, it disappears for weeks. He loves and burns with passion, he prefers to watch TV before going to bed. It happens that strangers begin to go to a mistress not for sex, but in order to stay in peace and quiet. They do not know that you, most likely, would like something completely different.
To say that you can not start romance with married men, you can as many as you like, and you yourself know this. But, if it so happened that your beloved man is married, be ready for anything. His refusal of sex can be explained by fatigue, stress, or maybe because he has enough passionate nights and at home. In this case, you are already on the second cast.
If your relationship is valuable to you, surround it with care, create a pleasant atmosphere and coziness. It is possible that he will get warm, rest and remember that you were bound before.

Of course, the reasons why men can refuse sex, enough. It can be not only his internal changes to you, but also new complexes about his capabilities. Some try to punish or raise a wife in this way. Others turn the mistress and their strength is not enough at all. What is behind the reason for such a change is not difficult to understand. If a man is often in a bad mood, sad, less communicates and closes in himself, do not rush to blame him for treason. Perhaps he is experiencing one of the most acute depressions in his life, which has nothing to do with women. Wait, and you will be convinced that the desire to help and understand will be returned to your relationship and warmth and passion.