You will not believe, but men really believe that any woman can be bought, won or earned. Like, it's silly to talk about your disinterestedness. And if the conquest of a woman (that is, to drag her into the registry office or even to bed) does not require any strength or money, then this is a very cheap woman. Not disinterested, but cheap. Men understand this - and treat it accordingly. How do you like it?! Many will say - well, it depends what kind of man. And, in fact, what? Mischief or motive - how do you know who you contacted? This article describes the main "types" of both. Can be extremely useful to each of us.
Do not be afraid to seem self-serving. But do not give yourself a specific price. For it is not the richness of the boyfriend that matters, but his generosity. By and large, men who spend money and time on women are divided into motes and reins - that is, those who spend easily and a lot, and on ... you know. Motives and relics are divided into subspecies, some of which we will try to highlight in this article. Each type has its own goals, habits and distinctive features ... They are not very necessary to know. And you can not read at all, but for your own safety, master one mandatory rule: generosity is an absolute concept. A man who is greedy for money is greedy for both sex and spiritual revelations.
LIQUIDS.
Regardless of the financial condition and time limit, they are always afraid to sell cheap. The real reason for their stiffness is never voiced, but it boils down to a primitive calculation: "Do not pay ahead: you risk overpaying." The official version sounds like: "The main thing is human relations, not money and mutual services." The most common categories of reins are:
1. CALCULATOR.
Occupation: hired worker (at any level - from the loader to the VIP-manager) with a stable salary.
Financial position: any - in accordance with the position held. You will get acquainted with the service or with common acquaintances. These types are cautious and attentive, do not like to take risks and therefore avoid dating on the street, at a disco, in a nightclub. However, in the club you are unlikely to meet - he does not go there (except for a business meeting at the expense of the inviting party).
Purpose: it is quite possible - marriage. Wife is needed: a) for status, b) for solving small domestic issues, c) for solving psychological problems, d) to meet sexual needs.
Sex: The demand will begin almost on the first date, because it wants to know that it pays well. In the future you can count on him about 2 times a month - in a missionary position and very quickly.
What can you expect? The status of a decent woman. Plus the guarantee of matrimonial fidelity on his part for the next 15-20 years.
How to behave? Do not handle requests and do not sigh meaningfully near flower, perfume and jewelry stores: it will frighten him. Do not make appointments in open spaces: he does not cherish the time of others and is almost always late - so let him better come for you home or work. Invite him to dinner and demonstrate his culinary talent, but if he did not immediately offer you a hand and heart, do not feed him any more - there's nothing to accustom to a freebie!
2. MISUSE KNIFE.
Occupation - own business or management in a very large enterprise. Maybe - crime.
Financial position is high, but not always stable. In addition - poorly controlled.
You will get acquainted at work (including negotiations, conferences), at a night club, at a resort.
Purpose: if not industrial espionage, then, perhaps, he liked you.
Sex ... It happens. As a rule, without foreplay.
What can you expect? For dinner in the not-so-expensive zucchini and a free invitation to a fashionable get-together with a buffet table. He likes to talk about "for my wife, I'm ready for anything", in fact, completely loses interest in the lady, as soon as she becomes "her".
How to behave? Try to make appointments in restaurants: if his greed at the level of pathology - soon he will run away.
3. THE BADGER ARTIST.
Occupation: художник. Or a photographer. Journalist, artist, translator, sportsman student, young scientist, novice businessman - in general, unemployed with very few or absolutely absent fees.
Financial situation: an awful.
You will get acquainted: at school, on the street, in public transport.
Aim: take some time to eat at your expense.
Sex: either often, a lot and with the expectation of a reward, or at all (because "the flesh is filth, and most importantly - the unity of souls!").
What can you expect? On your free portrait in the style of Cubism, poems in your honor and walks under the moon.
How to behave? Do not give him the keys to the apartment and money borrowed. And in general it is better not to get acquainted with him.
MOTES.
Sometimes their generosity is even frightening: you are frankly paid as a prostitute, or taken to keep with all the ensuing consequences (deprivation of the right to vote and freedom of movement). But in general, Moto - pretty nice people. Most of all, they are captivated by absolute (at least - external) disinterestedness: they do not seem to be building any plans for you, they do not count on subsequent services, but simply enjoy what they feed you, walk around and take care of them ...
1. The Merchant.
Occupation: any, except for the teacher, painter and scientific worker.
Financial position: stable.
You will get acquainted anywhere, except in the library.
The goal: to demonstrate its steepness (even to himself).
Sex - a stormy (not excluded - a group). To surprise a partner is more important than to please her.
What can you expect? In the material plan - for everything. He can even become a sponsor or husband. But it is useless to load it with your own emotional experiences and real problems.
How to behave? Careful that he does not consider you his thing and what good did not start to share with friends. Keep distance: the harder you win, the more generous and more adventurous.
2. THE GENEROUS KNIFE.
Occupation: any.
Financial position is reliable, although not necessarily high.
You will meet friends, at work (study), resort, scientific conference, in the library, in a night club, in the pool.
The goal is missing. He is entertained by the process of courtship, seduction and even mere communication.
Sex. He is not always highly technical, but always gentle and caring. The pleasure of the partner is a priority.
On what you can count on anything - from a showdown in your honor before the wedding trip to Miami.
How to behave? Naturally. But in any case, do not reduce the relationship only to sex, otherwise it will get bored.
3. FREE ARTIST.
Occupation is a person of a get-together: a poet, composer, producer, fashion artist, successful journalist, lawyer, sportsman, spy, hitman, stylist - in general, he has an irregular working day and one-time but high fees.
Financial situation: unstable.
You will meet at a party or at work (you are a client, he is a performer).
Purpose: to find the muse.
Sex - in general, is not required. Often replaced by long spiritual night talk. But if there is - a virtuoso, with elements of narcissism (narcissism).
What can you expect? On numerous acquaintances with interesting people, on care and attention on his part, to glory.
How to behave? To be either very beautiful or very smart.