Modern Woman: Family and Business


How still it is a pity that the times of noble knights long ago have sunk into oblivion. And now the beautiful princesses are now already going to conquer the world and fight with dragons - though, fortunately, so far only in a figurative sense. Stubbornly and long struggled for their rights women, broke free, and rushed to conquer the men only recently accessible only to peaks. Yes, and with what success! A woman astronaut, a woman president, a woman minister of defense - if someone dared to assume this at the beginning of the twentieth century, he would have been recognized as the craziest, the smallest.

The turbulent events of our time pick up and throw someone into the sky-high hight of skyscrapers, some on the lost oil platform in the ocean, some in the cockpit of a fighter of the newest model. There is no longer, probably, an area where modern representatives of the beautiful half would not have made their way. One of the last to give up the business. And the word combinations of a new time, a fashionable trend, brilliant victories - business woman, business-vumen, lady-boss sounded.

But this does not mean that women are trying to seize the initiative and replace men in everything, everywhere they are trying to establish their control, manage and rule. Yes, as it turned out, women can make money no worse, but not all of them like to lead, and, frankly, not everyone can do it. Therefore, there are a lot of areas in which a modern woman can succeed without being a lady boss. For example, in the film industry, model and show business, the beauty industry, sports. Here you can find your calling, make a dizzying career, become famous all over the world. As the Americans say, one can wake up famous one day. That's just where to wake up? Do you have a family hearth? In fact, what about family happiness? Yet a woman is not a man, a family for her - above all. So does this career hinder or not? How does the modern woman herself see this - family and business are compatible? Do they successfully complement each other? Peacefully coexist? Go mutually interfere?

Indeed, what will a woman choose if she has to lose one of this pair: a family or a career? The question seems absurd, and the answer is obvious. But, alas, the statistics of life shows that not everything is so rosy, and every year the number of those who with difficulty or ease will sacrifice their family for business is growing.

Why is that? Why is female nature suppressed? After all, no matter how high a bar the business lady set herself, she should never forget the main thing - she was born a Woman. And accordingly, to conquer any height, to achieve amazing results should in full accordance with its natural status and the consequences arising from it. A woman should not throw herself on the altar of business, subordinate his home and loved ones. In business, as in life, everything is not cloudless and smooth. It is impossible to create without mistaking. It is important to remember this and initially be prepared so that failures and misses in business are not reflected in the family. Otherwise, from the gentle and caring hostess of a cozy home, one can imperceptibly turn into a dictator. Home is not to blame for being a lady boss, they need not only and not so much welfare as you: your presence, your attention, your kind word.

No material blessings will ever replace a husband with a wife, and children with a mother. You want to be a business woman - learn to be it. It's learning, try, combine, and do not sacrifice one for the sake of the other. Especially, there is something to strive for. Skilful combination of family and career has already allowed women's names to sound and shine on the whole world. There are magnificent examples of a harmonious combination of a successful woman and a beautiful mother. One of them is the world-famous Joan Rowling.