To recognize the future business woman it is possible still at school: it is the girl capable, but, according to teachers, sometimes with hooligan manners. But in fact, she simply protests against school drill, struggles for her freedom, while striving for knowledge and power. Often she behaves like a boy, because her already in adolescence is oppressed by the difference in requirements for the two sexes.
She proves her right not to be a good child, as is often required in school by girls. And studying is easy for her, even if she sometimes does not teach lessons.
The first difficulties appear in the institute. Often the admission committee acts, as they say, on the basis of gender: girls are given fewer preferences in examinations than boys. As one old professor said, "why waste time on ladies? They will still marry rich men after the end, they will not work, they will take care of the house and children. ". Alas, this is the point of view of many teachers of higher education, especially the fanatics of their cause. But the future business woman is not going to limit herself to diapers and cuisine! However, teachers can not be persuaded, and therefore a girl is sometimes more difficult to enter the institute than a young man. Especially where there are few young men or where the specialty is initially considered "male". And if such a girl still breaks through and acts, then one can be sure: by intellectual ability, she is much higher than those young men that were accepted with her. During the student's period, a business woman begins to provide herself with financial independence.
The scholarship is often not elevated, but the most common (because her grades do not reflect her real level of knowledge), but she does almost all the time in her studies. In addition, it leads an active social life. In addition to the fact that she has a high intellectual potential, she is also energetic and energetic, trying to spend this energy not for trifles, but to achieve something specific in life. In particular, while engaging in social activities, she lays the foundation of her career and satisfies her desire for power. In former times, such girls became Komsomol leaders, now they are starting to break into business with a student's bench.
Women with youth aiming at a career usually do not have time to get a family. They confidently go to the intended goal - the chief's chair. They do not think about the family, postponing it for later. They start thinking closer to 30, getting a position. Since to achieve this position they had to do much more mental and volitional efforts than men, then at this level they are surrounded by men who themselves think women unworthy of them. These women want to see next to a strong, prosperous person, but just such men want to see in a woman tenderness and weakness.
A business woman, ideally, is a bright person, she is feminine, not cruel and not cold, intellectually and physically active, makes decisions herself, but perfectly captures the moods of others; it is uncommon for petty custody of subordinates. She is ready to take risks, purposeful, self-confident, adequately responds to criticism, remarks and even insults. He is able to quickly switch from one social role ("leader, business woman) to another (" daughter, mother, wife "), is confident in understanding, support and help from her husband and children." Climbing the ladder of success turned out to be a difficult and insecure business. a woman must constantly prove to herself and others that she is engaged in her own business.Every-thirds of all the nervous disorders of a business woman comes from the collision of their role as a leader at work and as a performer at home.
But the woman has a number of advantages, realizing which, she can become a successful leader. A woman leader has a more subtle social intelligence, she is more sensitive to the nuances of relationships, including her attitude toward herself. She knows how to evaluate and predict the behavior of other people. True, more than men, there is a danger to go on about their emotions. And hysteria and leadership are things incompatible. A woman has more contact and practical thinking. If a man is inclined to build long-term plans, to count on a long-term perspective, then the woman prefers a specifically guaranteed result, "here and now." A woman is better than a man to control her own and other people's mistakes; she, as a rule, better formulates her thoughts and expresses ideas. It is noticed that it is less than men reacting to courtship and sexual claims in business relations. She clearly distinguishes between business and entertainment.