Promises to be given in the New Year


The question "What to do?" Is special. With what you do not have to do, everything is clear. And here it seems: you will learn the correct answer - then the five-year plan in four years, and happiness without borders. But the clue almost always remains a mystery that is covered in darkness. It was such thoughts on the eve of the New Year that made us form the main goals for the future.


Be yourself

On a date, you try to be as charming as Angelina Jolie, sexy like Penelope Cruz, and as detailed as Gwyneth Paltrow. A work-wise - reasonable, like Cleopatra, prudent, like Hilary Clinton and the compromise, like herself Margaret Thatcher. In a constant pursuit of the ideal, you are indulgent towards samaseb. Every time, from a new week or from a new year, you give yourself universal, correct and boring promises to go to the gym, do not eat much, and lose 5 kilograms by March 8. You need a love for you: passionate, like Antonio Banderas, charismatic, like Johnny Depp and, of course, with a good pedigree. And as a result - you are overtaken by constant disappointment. Real, you attract those who are real to you, uninteresting. Undoubtedly, in a strange image and self-indulgent, too, compliments, skillfully invented, are not lack of discipline. Stop wearing the mask. Show what you are is a star. Many fans will want to be like you and with someone like you!

Do not change others

If you were brought up in a kindergarten, then on the advice of teachers, since childhood you remember that you must help unreasonable citizens to be better. This point you can safely skip. The ability to perceive those around you as they are, completely changes the picture of the world. You can not re-educate the former gentleman - an incorrigible ladies' man, Mama, who considers you an eternal child, and a leader who has seven Fridays on his own. You give an impartial assessment of the situation as a whole and build your own life, following the conclusions drawn. And as a result, the people around will just stop trying to change you.

Live on the positive

Each person has his own degree and his criterion for assessing optimism. There is only one thing that unites all - to preserve the positive attitude. Forced a smile in his mouth and mocking laughter difficult moments, when the soul hurts, no joy can bring. Continuity and complaints, as well as the search for a catch in everything, are devastating. Removing from the environment of "toxic" people, that by their negative and negative emotions eat your energy, and having worked out a constructive approach to solving any problems, you can see how much you have become better and more cheerful to live!

To change yourself

Original and large-scale think. Leave all your shortcomings in the outgoing year. Start, for example, to fight with laziness, jealousy, greed, falsity, envy, etc. In time, internally, you will be able to adapt to your positive changes and, without knowing it, you will become a permanent client of the fitness club and will forever forget the way to the confectionery, where you used to be a regular guest. And here's another idea. Think: do you listen to the speaker or just simply wait, when he pauses to insert his "pyatikopek"? Change yourself and you will understand that you could win over yourself. This victory will inspire you, add strength and inspire you to new achievements.

Make friends with doctors

You practice computer upgrade and vehicle inspection, finally, change the heel on shoes - treat yourself as well as to a perfectly functioning organism. The idea of ​​periodic medical examination is not bad at all, it's like an advertising action under a single auspices: "One day in a polyclinic is a year without it!". Remember, time is too expensive to lose it because of illness.

Learn…

... It's perfect to speak English, to drive perfectly, to dance charmingly, in the morning before going to work, doing beautiful make-up and hair, tasty cooking, good stitching. Also, it is safe to defend your (correct!) Point of view and feel free to admit wrong, say "no" instead of "yes" and vice versa, and at the same time differentiate situations where it is appropriate. Read the policemen between the lines (to protect themselves), and also perfectly master some kind of sport, find your hobby, do not get upset about trifles, untangle left and right money, do not be late ... And first, do not punish yourself but that yet has not managed to master all these qualities and skills.

To make a plan

Everyone knows that the aspirant will master the way. Hence it follows that it is more reliable to think in advance of the route to the cherished goal. And reward yourself with every right step. Therefore, dividing any tasks into points - from making a shopping list to searching your second half - always be able to answer the question: "Why do you need this?" And "What then will I do?". This will significantly reduce the risk of losing sleep. As they say, life goes on, while people build their plans on it!

To sleep more

A sleepy person is a loss to society. No matter how many hours in the distance, we do not have enough time for anything. The dream will save you! It can increase concentration of attention, productivity and give cheerfulness. In other words, this is the only chance to always be on top. You agree, to appear before a loved one or boss in a diffused manner is very unpleasant. According to scientists: every hour of sleep per day can raise the vital tone of 15%, while the result is visible instantly. Remember, a night's sleep is not less than 6 hours, it's a way to not miss anything.

Continue to not give a promise

Ambient - to be able to surprise them with their own prizes. Myself - not to scold yourself then for his own inability to keep his word. There is a certain tradition: to compile a list of promises on the night of December 31 to January 1, burn, and ashes together with champagne for the first boycourt. In this case, everything will come to life in itself, without any unnecessary efforts. It is worth adding: the secondary and superfluous will be forgotten ... So, what is it necessary to mention the oath even in writing?

Take it in your own hands

Almost the entire New Year's list is made up. And you certainly promised to be yourself and not change others, and also to sleep more and learn new things, and also to go to the coveted! It's all? Not at all! Take everything in your hands and never hope for anybody that was not, and you immediately notice how much in your life will change. Remember that there is never a flowing stone slide, therefore, if something or you want to change something, always act!